depending on each individual needs, perfect is what you make of it. What your expectation with a person you are in love with, is what make he/she perfect for you.
Realistically speaking, no one is perfect. I am not perfect and you are not perfect too. But when two individual fall in love, and willing to share the ups and downs, care for each other intimately, and when that two heart beats as one, that is perfect.
I have to agree, geeks have been trying to make the "perfect person" for years. Y'know, the robot girlfriend a la Stepford Wife...all they've been able to make so far is a bunch of pretty morons that can benchpress a car.
I’ve actually met quite a few women over the course of my life whom I feel I would have been highly compatible and happy with.
Unfortunately they were all already happily married with children.
Apparently a whole lot of other men are attracted to the women I like.
I can’t blame them. But it leaves me standing out in the cold.
The fact that I was extremely shy (cripplingly shy) when I was younger didn’t help any either.
But yes, there are a LOT of women out there who would be ‘perfect’ for me, and I would be ‘perfect’ for them. The problem is finding one that’s single and who lives close enough to actually physically date.
I can’t tell from pictures, or emails, or anything like that. I need to meet her in person and feel the magic in the air. Only then can I know for sure. I’ve hit it off with far too many women on the net only to meet with them in person and discover that there’s absolutely no chemistry there at all. This has happened so many times that I’ve lost my incentive to even bother going out to meet women in person anymore.
I’ll just have to wait until I accidentally bump into her in the real world. Live, and in-person. But since I never go out of my house that’s not likely to happen.
That person exists in your mind. It was born there, if such a thing has human form and exits at the time you are alive is another problem. Maybe it is out there or maybe not even your whole life would be enough to find it.
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OK I gotta run now