Id like to ask, y is it women dont reply if they are not interested. It is only common courtesy to do so. I reply to every message, even if it is to just say thanx. I cannot put into words how annoying it is to experience this....LOL So please do it
i do always try to respond, but sometimes when i read my mail i'm also in the middle of something else, i mean to get back to it but it goes out of my head. it's nothing personal.... and there's really no offence meant
Maybe their profile says they are not interested if you are.... whatever the criteria is. So if you had read their profile, you would know they probably won't answer anyways, because it says so in the profile! ;) but who knows?
Generally any person who respects others and would like others to respect him, would reply, even if he is not interesed in communicating those who contact him, just he can explain why. Nothing worse than ignoring people.
If only you can make the world submit to your will, wouldn't it be a great place? Yes, I agree with you, but you have no idea how many threads are posted on this subject. The more I hear it, the more I begin to laugh. So what. If you can't make the others go along with what you want, and it bothers you that bad, then change your photos, change your profile and play a different role. Otherwise, be content and stay how you are. Perhaps it is just a way to sort out the goodies from the baddies. Yes, I said Baddies and my spell check didn't even bother to kick in. HAH HAH HAH HAH HAH
i do NOT reply to every message i get, and i'm not a bit apologetic about it. i don't owe a thing to people i've never even met. to suggest so would be ludicrous.
i only have a certain amount of time in my day, and it's not going to be used to let down every person who never took the time to read my profile.
It's not like you ignore someone on the elevator who says hello to you! It's the internet, you can't really believe that if someone doesn't reply to a flower it's comprable to ignoring someone in person.
I always answer people who post in the forums, because I kind of know about them.
If someone I never heard of from some other foreign place sends me a flower with a preprinted statement, I rarely answer. Yep, I ignore them. I also ignore and block senders of form letters.
I thought we were talking about people you know, from the forums, messages or e-mails. When I receive a strange message from a person here I don't know I wait for a day or two before answering, the cs system is good, they clean rubbish and fake people directly.
I reply to everybody I know, as soon as I can. Others I take my time to think about it. Sometimes then I forget or don't find them interesting enough to respond.
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I cannot put into words how annoying it is to experience this....LOL So please do it