Does "true love" exsist anymore? (27)

Mar 23, 2007 11:13 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
scubabunny
scubabunnyscubabunnylittlerock, Arkansas USA3 Threads 74 Posts
I want to know if true loves still exist or is it just a term that is used loosly
Mar 23, 2007 11:19 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
scubabunny
scubabunnyscubabunnylittlerock, Arkansas USA3 Threads 74 Posts
someone has to have a good anwser
Mar 23, 2007 11:49 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
I think spiritual love can be true.
Mar 23, 2007 11:51 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
scubabunny
scubabunnyscubabunnylittlerock, Arkansas USA3 Threads 74 Posts
what do you mean by spiritual love exactly
Mar 24, 2007 12:36 AM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
Having a close friend that you can talk to; Be yourself around and share good times with.
Mar 24, 2007 12:53 AM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
scubabunny
scubabunnyscubabunnylittlerock, Arkansas USA3 Threads 74 Posts
I will agree with that! Well put my dear
Mar 24, 2007 4:30 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
swtarkiegal68
swtarkiegal68swtarkiegal68hotsprings, Arkansas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
well hmm...i think it does still exist but is very rare in these days and times to have a true love between a women and a man hard to find
Mar 24, 2007 7:25 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
scubabunny
scubabunnyscubabunnylittlerock, Arkansas USA3 Threads 74 Posts
I agree with that statement. I was in Hot Springs last night to get away from LIttle Rock! How do you know if it is true or not for sure?
Mar 26, 2007 7:35 AM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
swtarkiegal68
swtarkiegal68swtarkiegal68hotsprings, Arkansas USA1 Threads 8 Posts
well just my opinion but i think you know its real by how each of you feel for one another such as its the way your face lights up at the very mention of their name,its how all your thoughts become all of them your mind wanders through the day of thoughts of them and the last thing you think about before goin to sleep and the first thing you think about when you awake its how you cant remember your life before them,and you cant imagine life without them,how fast your heart beats when you know your about to see them how your hands shake and your smile is a little bigger everytime the phone rings in thoughts it may be them,how your thoughts arent what you want and what makes you happy but in what will make them happy,in how you would do little things just to see them smile
Mar 27, 2007 9:50 AM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
Maddagger
MaddaggerMaddaggerHot Springs, Arkansas USA1 Posts
I do believe that true love exist. The problem is, with everyone being so busy and scheduling conflicts with the sigificant other,we lose site of what is most important. It takes work and commitment to make the other person fill significant and loved.cherish the time that you do have together. Work harder on making the other person happy,and never lose site of what means most to you. Do things to let them know how much they mean to you, no matter how small or insignificant it may seem.
Mar 27, 2007 12:41 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
Ubuntu
UbuntuUbuntuPerryville, Arkansas USA2 Threads 88 Posts
Sure, true love exists. I truly love my motorcycle. My friend truly loves his ol' pickup. See?rolling on the floor laughing
Mar 27, 2007 6:24 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
scubabunny
scubabunnyscubabunnylittlerock, Arkansas USA3 Threads 74 Posts
That was very well put. I think it is so true.
Mar 27, 2007 6:29 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
rzrback
rzrbackrzrbacksherwood, USA27 Threads 510 Posts
The problem nowadays is that people dont slow down enough to actually take the time to get to know each other.
Then when you have.......Hmmm, why am I giving love advice, I have been divorced twice.

OK, never mind.

cool
Mar 27, 2007 9:01 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
scubabunny
scubabunnyscubabunnylittlerock, Arkansas USA3 Threads 74 Posts
Thats okay. Just becasue u have been married twice does not mean u doint know.. Ive been there too
Mar 27, 2007 9:46 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
twila_zoned
twila_zonedtwila_zonedNortheast, Arkansas USA4 Threads 40 Posts
"Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies." ~~~Aristotle




I think true love allows you to see an imperfect person perfectly. You wouldn't change one thing about them, because the are perfect just the way they are. They are beautiful to you , inside and out. They not perfect, and they have flaws, but they are perfect for you, and when you look into their eyes, you see everything you need. You want to be better, just because you are with them.


It's being with that one person that you have an unexplainable, indescribable, instant connection too. It's as though you have known each other since before time began. It's as if you were simply "apart " for a little while, and every moment you spend talking, you're really just "catching up". Sometimes when you are near them, the feeling of love is so overwhelming that you have to remind yourself to "Breathe...in and out....just breathe..." It's when you finish each other's sentences. It's when you could listen to them talk all night and never get tired their voice...It's when the thought of their name gives you butterflies...They are the the last person you think of when you go to sleep and the first person you think of when you wake. It's when you want their happiness far more than you want your own, regardless of what that means for you personally.

It's when you aren't able to spend time physically in each others' presence, and yet, every moment you spend together on the phone, or online, through e-mails or messengers.... it's as though you were right there with them. You see them in your mind so vividly that you know exactly what gestures they are making as they speak. You can see the way they tilt their head when they laugh, and how their eyes light up...how their eyes darken when they're serious...how they kick back on the couch when watching a movie... and how their body feels against yours... even when you can't see or touch them.... and all this comes not from looking at them, but from KNOWING them... because somehow, someway, you're soul is connected to theirs... as if you were two parts of a whole... and you complete each other even when you're not together.

Some people tell me I'm hoping for to much, but I know true love is real. My parents had it, I grew up surrounded by it, and I hope to have the same thing someday.
Mar 27, 2007 10:40 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
scubabunny
scubabunnyscubabunnylittlerock, Arkansas USA3 Threads 74 Posts
Well spoken.. Gives me a little more insight! Have you ever been in real love?
Mar 27, 2007 11:18 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
twila_zoned
twila_zonedtwila_zonedNortheast, Arkansas USA4 Threads 40 Posts
Yes, I've had it, and really, the description I gave pales in comparison. Words alone are inadequate. But also, I think the meaning of "true love" is defined by the individual. It means different things to different people. I can only give you my definition of it, and I may be the only one who sees it that way. I'm glad you asked the question though. I'm curious to see some more of the replies.
Mar 28, 2007 12:56 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
twila_zoned
twila_zonedtwila_zonedNortheast, Arkansas USA4 Threads 40 Posts
I think you CAN blame her, actually. My true love was in the 82nd Airborne, and was gone all the time too. But no matter how far away he was, his presence was always with me, every moment of every day. I could close my eyes and think of him, walking up behind me, putting his arms around me, and I could feel him against me, just as real as if he were there. He died a long, long time ago... but sometimes, (like now) I can think of him, and I still feel him. No one ever said love would be easy... you just have to know it's worth it...
Apr 8, 2007 7:22 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
kmmwoodsman
kmmwoodsmankmmwoodsmancalico rock, Arkansas USA1 Posts
That is a great definition of true love , simple yet deep . My parrents had/have that , and I'm also holding out for it too . I don't know that it is there for everyone though . Wouldn't it be great if it were ?
Apr 9, 2007 9:54 PM CST Does "true love" exsist anymore?
arkguy
arkguyarkguyosceola, Arkansas USA4 Posts
Very interesting statement.........I don't know but seems as though I still search for that answer.....
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