so true ohio i have seen it to and it happens to guys too woman has a good guy by that i mean sweet kind hardworking and then the women in their life goes out looking for something else jsut for fun they say
Maybe there is more than meets the eye as to the relationships you've observed.
You're a prime example, and do not take this offensely. You don't let a thread go by without stating how great you are and how great you treat you treat a lady. Comes off as you are the last wonderful person left on Earth and you're belittling yourself by mixing amoungst us, the flawed single community.
I'm certain that's not the case, and you're not that arrogant, but only a brief observation. It's not the big picture and everyone sees with different eyes.
Nice guys absolutely do NOT finish last. It just all depends on your definition of nice.
No, I'm not trying to come off as the only good man left. There's a few of us lurking out there. I am truley a good man, got lots of refrences, lol. I use myself as an example, I feel I am a good representative of what a good man is. I'm not perfect by any means, none of us are. In no way do I intend to pose as the only one left. Try not to over analyze me too much, please. Yeah there may be more than meets the eye in my observations of these situations. But, if the man treats his woman like that in public, how do you think he treats her at home? Just thought I throw that out for ya'll to consider. Yeah, there are women that treat their men poorley as well. I think that may have something to do with the way they've been treated in the past.
People only get treated by the way they allow others to treat them. Maybe they like it. If women allow men to treat them bad they will, that is why most of us on here are single because we refuse to take it. It might be the 21st century, but I still think women should be treated good no matter what. No one deserves to be treated like crap whether your a woman or a man. But if you chose to be treated that way then I would say you deserve it. There is always a way out
Right on, Celina. My sentiments exactly. Good men, or people in general, can transform into monsters if they're allowed to. Why show effort if you don't have to? Not nice, but it's true.
with that being said letzgo i was in a verbually abusive relationship for only a year and it really wasnt for me that i got out it was for my son and the feeling of not being able to get out is caused by the fact that most women or men that are abused allow themselves to be abused and allow their parnter to abusive them the way i see it you do what you have to do i would rather have to sleep in a shelter than sleep with a man that would talk to me like trash or hit me dotn take this the wrong way just the way i think
well i can only agree with the treated as allowed to be line to a point
anyone can be pulled into a bad and abusive relationship (even the guys) but before they realize what has happened they end up being (for lack of a better word) brain washed and don't realize it at all and just think that they are in a typical relationship
i do agree it should not be this way but that's life it will never be a perfect world as long as people inhabit it
shawny baby every thread you start,is a bloody advertisement to tell the ladys how nice you are,what a great guy you are,how the ladies should go out with you ,you would treat them with respect,you would love them sooo much............shawny baby why are you trying to prove yourself all the time???????RELAX MAN,love ya shawny
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