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Nov 27, 2005 12:00 PM CST baffeled
LiteraryLass
LiteraryLassLiteraryLassMinneapolis, Minnesota USA3 Threads 25 Posts
I am baffeled too.
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Nov 27, 2005 12:03 PM CST baffeled
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
so true ohio i have seen it to and it happens to guys too
woman has a good guy by that i mean sweet kind hardworking and then the women in their life goes out looking for something else jsut for fun they say
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Nov 27, 2005 12:34 PM CST baffeled
tampa1
tampa1tampa1London, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,057 Posts
My preofile has been viewed by about 12 people since being here and one of those was my DXW. Thanks hun.
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Nov 27, 2005 12:39 PM CST baffeled
CrashNo2
CrashNo2CrashNo2Fairborn, USA13 Threads 920 Posts
Maybe there is more than meets the eye as to the relationships you've observed.

You're a prime example, and do not take this offensely. You don't let a thread go by without stating how great you are and how great you treat you treat a lady. Comes off as you are the last wonderful person left on Earth and you're belittling yourself by mixing amoungst us, the flawed single community.

I'm certain that's not the case, and you're not that arrogant, but only a brief observation. It's not the big picture and everyone sees with different eyes.

Nice guys absolutely do NOT finish last. It just all depends on your definition of nice.
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Nov 27, 2005 2:00 PM CST baffeled
ohiostate4life
ohiostate4lifeohiostate4lifemarion, Ohio USA34 Threads 626 Posts
No, I'm not trying to come off as the only good man left. There's a few of us lurking out there. I am truley a good man, got lots of refrences, lol. I use myself as an example, I feel I am a good representative of what a good man is. I'm not perfect by any means, none of us are. In no way do I intend to pose as the only one left. Try not to over analyze me too much, please. Yeah there may be more than meets the eye in my observations of these situations. But, if the man treats his woman like that in public, how do you think he treats her at home? Just thought I throw that out for ya'll to consider. Yeah, there are women that treat their men poorley as well. I think that may have something to do with the way they've been treated in the past.
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Nov 27, 2005 3:33 PM CST baffeled
cranbrook2
cranbrook2cranbrook2brussels, Ontario Canada6 Threads 1,426 Posts
i,m not nice .i am a bad boy lookin for a bad gurl.
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Nov 27, 2005 3:46 PM CST baffeled
tampa1
tampa1tampa1London, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,057 Posts
Gotta like an honest man cran. LOL
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Nov 27, 2005 3:46 PM CST baffeled
Why baffled? It's part of the great game. just walk over it, and treat it as having not work your way; it went the way of those who acted.
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Nov 27, 2005 3:54 PM CST baffeled
celina
celinacelinafort lauderdale, USA2 Threads 60 Posts
People only get treated by the way they allow others to treat them. Maybe they like it. If women allow men to treat them bad they will, that is why most of us on here are single because we refuse to take it. It might be the 21st century, but I still think women should be treated good no matter what. No one deserves to be treated like crap whether your a woman or a man. But if you chose to be treated that way then I would say you deserve it. There is always a way out
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Nov 27, 2005 4:40 PM CST baffeled
CrashNo2
CrashNo2CrashNo2Fairborn, USA13 Threads 920 Posts
Right on, Celina. My sentiments exactly. Good men, or people in general, can transform into monsters if they're allowed to. Why show effort if you don't have to? Not nice, but it's true.
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Nov 27, 2005 8:02 PM CST baffeled
plarkin
plarkinplarkinMinneapolis, Minnesota USA69 Threads 514 Posts
Literarylass you're wicked!
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Nov 27, 2005 8:04 PM CST baffeled
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
with that being said letzgo
i was in a verbually abusive relationship for only a year and it really wasnt for me that i got out it was for my son
and the feeling of not being able to get out is caused by the fact that most women or men that are abused allow themselves to be abused and allow their parnter to abusive them
the way i see it you do what you have to do
i would rather have to sleep in a shelter than sleep with a man that would talk to me like trash or hit me
dotn take this the wrong way just the way i think
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Nov 28, 2005 12:13 AM CST baffeled
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
well i can only agree with the treated as allowed to be line to a point

anyone can be pulled into a bad and abusive relationship (even the guys) but before they realize what has happened they end up being (for lack of a better word) brain washed and don't realize it at all and just think that they are in a typical relationship

i do agree it should not be this way but that's life it will never be a perfect world as long as people inhabit it
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Dec 24, 2005 11:51 PM CST baffeled
shawny baby every thread you start,is a bloody advertisement to tell the ladys how nice you are,what a great guy you are,how the ladies should go out with you ,you would treat them with respect,you would love them sooo much............shawny baby why are you trying to prove yourself all the time???????RELAX MAN,love ya shawny
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Dec 25, 2005 2:21 PM CST baffeled
ohiostate4life
ohiostate4lifeohiostate4lifemarion, Ohio USA34 Threads 626 Posts
whuz up mate? lol....
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Dec 25, 2005 2:41 PM CST baffeled
Anarqi
AnarqiAnarqiIndianapolis, Indiana USA7 Threads 361 Posts
A clashing of egos, sigh. Let's move along folks, there's nothing more to see here.
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Dec 25, 2005 9:09 PM CST baffeled
thisbreath
thisbreaththisbreath115 Posts
who, spoke too soon..

as thisbreath, moves from out of the corner..
where she was waiting.. for the most opportune time..

and who.. has nothing more to say to waverider..

only smacks him.. across the left side of his face..

..........
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Dec 25, 2005 11:32 PM CST baffeled
dam girl,i love it.................your perfect
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Dec 26, 2005 4:01 AM CST baffeled
ohiostate4life
ohiostate4lifeohiostate4lifemarion, Ohio USA34 Threads 626 Posts
LOL!!!!
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Dec 26, 2005 4:02 AM CST baffeled
ohiostate4life
ohiostate4lifeohiostate4lifemarion, Ohio USA34 Threads 626 Posts
Im trying to behave myself, sorry, u Anarqi jumped the gun.
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