The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship. (41)

Apr 19, 2007 8:52 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
homer1
homer1homer1Luxembourg, Luxembourg15 Threads 572 Posts
Is that right?
Apr 19, 2007 8:55 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
Bulls-eye! head banger

Unless the lesser in Love has the brains to appreciate the great break fate has dealt him/her.

How high is the percentage of that tho', Homer? cheers
Apr 19, 2007 9:26 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Killingtime
KillingtimeKillingtimeHole in a wall, Majjistral Malta11 Threads 878 Posts
So, bang goes the theory of the “Power of love” then.

Which may, or may not, go a little way in explaining why some people tend to shy away from expressing their true feelings for someone first time out – fear of not having those feelings requited – or fear of being misunderstood. (I’m talking about real life, not about dating websites).

“Nothing is harder than a hardened heart”

Sometimes it is better to have a hard heart rather than a soft brain…
Apr 19, 2007 9:37 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
We girls all have soft chest's but the hard-harted live longer grin - Therefore, they are longer around to enjoy and be enjoyed grin
Apr 19, 2007 10:06 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Killingtime
KillingtimeKillingtimeHole in a wall, Majjistral Malta11 Threads 878 Posts
I note that you didn't mention anything about women's brains...ooops *smacks his own hand* naughty, naughty.
Apr 19, 2007 10:11 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
highfidelity
highfidelityhighfidelityEurope, Lower Saxony Germany37 Threads 2,287 Posts
Not necessarily NO !

Love is also strenght and positiveness in a relationship - now the games who loves more is a funny one anyway !

On the other hand when only one loves and the other is only the taker and gives nothing in return - perhaps even manipulating the love received - it might get damn unsatisfactional and is rather abusive !
Apr 19, 2007 10:12 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
homer1
homer1homer1Luxembourg, Luxembourg15 Threads 572 Posts
Soft chests apart it's a proposition which seems intuitively right, doesnt it?
Apr 19, 2007 10:39 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
busdriver
busdriverbusdriverLagos, Faro Portugal7 Threads 740 Posts
The one who loves most is the most in need of love. I for one have always loved very deeply but I am on no way weak.
Apr 19, 2007 11:10 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
migel
migelmigelAthens, Attica Greece1 Posts
...so you have to keep a balane and love equally.smitten
Apr 19, 2007 11:25 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
doh doh frustrated

Please find above ways of flaggelating yourself for that comment.

Do you want to be banned from the pub? laugh grin
Apr 19, 2007 11:26 AM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
well,Homer what do you want?

Applause??? applause applause applause


grin
Apr 19, 2007 12:20 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
I have a strange theory, putting aside Ulimaroa's soft chest, and hard heart statement for a moment.

I think that the person who loves most in a relationship is not weak at all. It is the more generous one of the couple, who does not want to be loved more than he/she loves. It is a fear of regretting not doing enough for the other person. So there is a kind of rivalry, of who does more of what. Obviously this applies for a couple who are seriously in love, not for cheaters or pretenders.
Apr 19, 2007 12:48 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
homer1
homer1homer1Luxembourg, Luxembourg15 Threads 572 Posts
Need you ask? wink
Apr 19, 2007 12:53 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
Well you're not getting it!
Apr 19, 2007 1:07 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
Depend who's faster angel
Apr 19, 2007 1:11 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
homer1
homer1homer1Luxembourg, Luxembourg15 Threads 572 Posts
Weeel, there is enough to go around, nah?
Apr 19, 2007 1:38 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Killingtime
KillingtimeKillingtimeHole in a wall, Majjistral Malta11 Threads 878 Posts
Good morning, Worm your honor.
The crown will plainly show
The prisoner who, now stands before you
Was caught red-handed showing feelings,
Showing feelings of an almost human nature.
This will not do.
Apr 19, 2007 1:41 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
highfidelity
highfidelityhighfidelityEurope, Lower Saxony Germany37 Threads 2,287 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing is that not a cute game cheering
Apr 19, 2007 2:47 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
We are no woolferines like the one that fed Romolus and Remus! I'd say fist in - first ( un)dressed grin
Apr 19, 2007 2:51 PM CST The one who loves more is the weaker one in a relationship.
highfidelity
highfidelityhighfidelityEurope, Lower Saxony Germany37 Threads 2,287 Posts
tremendouse - but true - very clear cut analytical mind - thanks for speaking it out !
grin peace
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