Hey!!! Folks i need some advice,bigtime (5)
A while ago you posted that you'd been single almost has many years as i am old.
If this is so it says you are competent and content with yourself and your own company. Yes there may of been kids to help fill time.
But i don't believe we are suppose to be on our own.
The final decision is yours as I'm sure your aware. But if you like the sounds of him, well meet him on neutral territory. If you have ideas of letting it possibly go further than just meeting him book a Motel room in advance and let a friend know as insurance.
Only you know what you want. But my advice is give it a chance u have nothing to lose.
Just make sure you take the precautions as we have all heard the stories.
If this is so it says you are competent and content with yourself and your own company. Yes there may of been kids to help fill time.
But i don't believe we are suppose to be on our own.
The final decision is yours as I'm sure your aware. But if you like the sounds of him, well meet him on neutral territory. If you have ideas of letting it possibly go further than just meeting him book a Motel room in advance and let a friend know as insurance.
Only you know what you want. But my advice is give it a chance u have nothing to lose.
Just make sure you take the precautions as we have all heard the stories.
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I have been in that situation myself and actually about to meet someone from afar who is coming to meet me. I think it is important because you won't have any idea if you are right for each other without meeting. I'd let friends and family know for safety reasons and until August see how things go, You CAN find out a lot about another by the way they handle different situations. Go for it..with self care and good luck to you both!! 
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Hey girl, alittle word to the wise....I too have met some guy's from online and realize 95% are dud's. There are a few really nice guy's out there. Just be smart. Rule 1. Never meet at your house, prevent's stalker's. Rule 2. Don't believe everything someone tell's you, action's speak volume's over words. Rule 3. If he sounds perfect, he's hiding alot. We're all human with weaknesses. Rule 4. Don't alway's believe the pic. you have been sent, many guy's post old one's. Rule 5. Keep a level head, just because it's been quite some time since you've been out there doesn't mean your a fool. Don't let the lonely factor make you give in to you principle's and your value's. Rule 6. Alway's respect yourself, cause if you don't neither will any guy. Good Luck Girl!!! It can be a real meat market.....for sure.
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Thanks everybody!! for the advice.We will see, what we will see.Iam tired of being lonely.
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I could sure use some good advice,right about now.
I met this guy in here,and we have been writing and calling each other,for about 3 months now.He is from Homer,LA. Next august he is coming up to where i live,and wants to meet me.Iam a bit nervous,and lost for words.He sounds wonderful,but this is going to be a test of confidence on my part.Should i let things roll,or what? I t has been a Coons age,since i have gotten a chance to have this.