What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now. (28)

Apr 25, 2007 4:52 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
nicosan
nicosannicosanAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium8 Threads 79 Posts
Hiii alll..
What do you think about the usual frase like....I´M NOT READY RIGHT NOW.or I NEED TIME...
Nicoconfused
Apr 25, 2007 4:54 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
it's a goodbye...
When you love someone, you feel the need to be with her/him at any circumstances...
Apr 25, 2007 4:55 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
nicosan
nicosannicosanAntwerp, Antwerpen Belgium8 Threads 79 Posts
Exactly that is what i think also... either you feel something or not... thanks for the reply...
Nico
Apr 25, 2007 5:00 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
hug smile
Apr 25, 2007 6:33 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
YamiYami
YamiYamiYamiYamiNorthWest, England UK30 Threads 1,252 Posts
I use it often and it does not mean 'Good Bye'.

People are different and circumstances are not the same . The best advice is to ask for a detailed explanation and not to assume one way or the other point blank . Communicate , Communicate , Communicate . Right move for the right reasons at the right time .
Apr 25, 2007 6:39 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
SENSI1
SENSI1SENSI1Leicester, UK1 Threads 126 Posts
what he said thumbs up
Apr 25, 2007 6:43 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
yes, relativise till we get no where...
what if after the communications the person says: "still...i'm not ready right now"?tongue laugh
Apr 25, 2007 6:48 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
busdriver
busdriverbusdriverLagos, Faro Portugal7 Threads 740 Posts
Depends what prompted the ‘not ready yet’. You must be ready for each step and you can be ready for one and not be ready for the next.

I think that the first meeting is the step that I will take the most time to be ready for.
Apr 25, 2007 1:30 PM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
antcus
antcusantcusSt Paul's Bay, Majjistral Malta17 Threads 948 Posts
For men
too tight underpants

For women
Wrong time of the month

LOL
Apr 25, 2007 1:40 PM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
Zuzua
ZuzuaZuzuaSwieqi, Majjistral Malta2 Threads 124 Posts
It's a coward's way of dumping i think..... i admire a person who can talk openly and be honest at all times - saves the respect of what was built however short or long lived it was.
Apr 25, 2007 1:43 PM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
Agree!

Communicate and dont push! Some people need time thumbs up
Apr 25, 2007 1:45 PM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
More clarification pls!

Ready for what?

For

a relationship???

a definite commitment???

a jump in the sack?

dunno
Apr 26, 2007 11:00 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
YamiYami
YamiYamiYamiYamiNorthWest, England UK30 Threads 1,252 Posts
It is very simple . Don't let people lead you on ..Observe the sensitivities , set a time limit , ask questions and if the response is not satisfactory say good bye . Some relationships worth the effort and some don't . Everyone makes mistakes . We should learn from each experience and walk away a little wiser .
Apr 26, 2007 9:42 PM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
Ulimaroa
UlimaroaUlimaroaCologne, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany121 Threads 38 Polls 5,629 Posts
What if it's the girls first time??? dunno
Apr 27, 2007 10:14 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
sybil
sybilsybildenia, Valencia Spain2 Posts
MAYBE....JUST MAYBE....the person who says they arent ready or they need time is getting over something traumatic. Maybe its true that they need a little time,and maybe they want you to hang around whilst they sort themselves out.So it could be an honest explanation instead ofa cop-out.Its definitely worth further communication. Why not just ask.eg "Do you want to end this???!!!!How hard was that?!cheers
Apr 27, 2007 10:27 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
highfidelity
highfidelityhighfidelityEurope, Lower Saxony Germany37 Threads 2,287 Posts
What is with TRUST and not wanting to feel pressed ? not looking for an adventure ?

What is with not being sure of wanting to hook up rightaway..?

What is with every day´s like challenges ?
having lots of responsabilities if you have kids ?

What is if your momentary situation is not too clear to yourself ?

thanks
Apr 28, 2007 1:57 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
natasha555
natasha555natasha555Plovdiv, Bulgaria14 Threads 649 Posts
Very true- different emotions can delay the decision,but if other person still wants to meet you-why don't you be patient?and why to be in a hurry ?/as HF/said in another post/dunno confused but don't hurry up,any wayscold
Apr 28, 2007 12:47 PM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
highfidelity
highfidelityhighfidelityEurope, Lower Saxony Germany37 Threads 2,287 Posts
yes I think so .. but on the other hand dont make me fall asleep either wink frustrated if not go to the friends thread comfort



devil rolling on the floor laughing
Apr 29, 2007 1:45 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
natasha555
natasha555natasha555Plovdiv, Bulgaria14 Threads 649 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing Very funnyyyyyyy...

Nothing wrong to agree with friends posts,but if you HF put"ALL RIGHTS RESERVED" to any of your posts or threads,I'll be more careful.uh ohfrustrated
Apr 29, 2007 2:38 AM CST What about the frase ..I´m not ready right now.
highfidelity
highfidelityhighfidelityEurope, Lower Saxony Germany37 Threads 2,287 Posts
so what about the frase .. I´m not ready right now ..

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