People are different and circumstances are not the same . The best advice is to ask for a detailed explanation and not to assume one way or the other point blank . Communicate , Communicate , Communicate . Right move for the right reasons at the right time .
It's a coward's way of dumping i think..... i admire a person who can talk openly and be honest at all times - saves the respect of what was built however short or long lived it was.
It is very simple . Don't let people lead you on ..Observe the sensitivities , set a time limit , ask questions and if the response is not satisfactory say good bye . Some relationships worth the effort and some don't . Everyone makes mistakes . We should learn from each experience and walk away a little wiser .
MAYBE....JUST MAYBE....the person who says they arent ready or they need time is getting over something traumatic. Maybe its true that they need a little time,and maybe they want you to hang around whilst they sort themselves out.So it could be an honest explanation instead ofa cop-out.Its definitely worth further communication. Why not just ask.eg "Do you want to end this???!!!!How hard was that?!
Very true- different emotions can delay the decision,but if other person still wants to meet you-why don't you be patient?and why to be in a hurry ?/as HF/said in another post/ but don't hurry up,any way
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What do you think about the usual frase like....I´M NOT READY RIGHT NOW.or I NEED TIME...
Nico