How do you know when it has gone on long enough? (14)
daddysunsineRed Deer, Alberta Canada2 Threads 27 PostsI have been emailing with someone for a little while with someone on cs and would like to meet her but don't want to come accross as a stalker. What is a comfortable time table to suggest a meeting?
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my 2 cents
i would ask her is she would like to meet worse thing she can say is no right
i would ask her is she would like to meet worse thing she can say is no right
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Hi Froggy, yeah that sounds quite easy and right to me,.....
Lutz
Lutz
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Why would you think that you'd come across as a stalker? Isn't meeting someone the whole point of this site?
I certainly can't see any harm in suggesting that you'd like to meet and asking her how she feels about it. How else is going going to know that you're that interested? However, pushing the idea if she's not responsive to it would most certainly be a bad idea.
I certainly can't see any harm in suggesting that you'd like to meet and asking her how she feels about it. How else is going going to know that you're that interested? However, pushing the idea if she's not responsive to it would most certainly be a bad idea.
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My take...if you have to ask, there must be discomfort on somebody's side. There should be a very obvious "want to" on both ends, shouldn't there?
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Yep, and if both parties are comfortable, anytime can be a good time, if you meet in a public place.
Note I said public - best way to assure a lady that she will be playing it safe.
Note I said public - best way to assure a lady that she will be playing it safe.
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This is true. I don't think I would meet with anyone straight from an email.
I've never had a problem with this issue actually. Every woman I've ever meet via the Internet has brought up the topic of meeting in person before I did. But then again, I'm exceptionally patient about that kind of thing.
I've never had a problem with this issue actually. Every woman I've ever meet via the Internet has brought up the topic of meeting in person before I did. But then again, I'm exceptionally patient about that kind of thing.
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20 yrs is long enough. i hate to rush things.
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yeah thats why my kids are 16 years apart.
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20 years???
ROFL, maybe we can have a coffee together then, if I can remember how to DRIVE!!! LOL
ROFL, maybe we can have a coffee together then, if I can remember how to DRIVE!!! LOL
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LMAO
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When you forget when it started... I have short term memmory
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When her grandkids are married.
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