If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together ( Archived) (48)

Apr 29, 2007 2:08 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
cherokeemoon
cherokeemooncherokeemoongrove, Oklahoma USA13 Threads 711 Posts
I was just curious,why is this not happening.Ive seen women and men from ages 30s to my age saying they r lonely.Does someone have the answer to this????
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Apr 29, 2007 2:28 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
Distance is biggest problem. Usually the one that catches your eye is on a whole different continent.
But several weeks ago we had a nearly a dozen people meeting up and checking each other out. What happened to these people I don't know.

But it was getting very lovey Dovey in the threads to the point of sickening.
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Apr 29, 2007 2:39 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
Theresalopez
TheresalopezTheresalopezLincoln, USA6 Threads 73 Posts
i ask myself the same thing everyday, LOl.

Jenhead banger
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Apr 29, 2007 2:41 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
heinzketchup
heinzketchupheinzketchupFort Mill, South Carolina USA11 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
Me not, enjoying temporary to be a singlebanana
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Apr 29, 2007 2:47 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
petethepainter
petethepainterpetethepainterinverness, UK21 Threads 862 Posts
<--- is not lonely but can understand the difficulties of getting together through a dating site!

Distance, lack of trust and fake profiles make it much harder than street-life!
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Apr 29, 2007 2:48 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
MrrightM
MrrightMMrrightMPantelimon/ Bucharest, Muntenia Romania23 Threads 697 Posts
Yeah Ive been thinking about that question also, WHY???confused dunno cool
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Apr 29, 2007 2:48 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
Theresalopez
TheresalopezTheresalopezLincoln, USA6 Threads 73 Posts
Don't get me wrong, I like being single too, able to keep ur options more open thanlaugh better sometimes to keep looking, then settle for second best!beer

jenhead banger
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Apr 29, 2007 2:51 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
JustMe0807
JustMe0807JustMe0807Marshall, Missouri USA34 Threads 558 Posts
I think I have just forgotten how to go about the whole dateing thing...I have been single now for about 4 years (my choice) and I am pretty shy untill I know someone don't help matters....
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Apr 29, 2007 2:52 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
Theresalopez
TheresalopezTheresalopezLincoln, USA6 Threads 73 Posts
That ain't very nice , aren't u allrolling on the floor laughing

Seriousally?

Just kiddingrin

Jenhead banger
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Apr 29, 2007 2:55 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
busdriver
busdriverbusdriverLagos, Faro Portugal7 Threads 740 Posts
Distance and lack of response. I hate it when you mail someone and they stay offline for weeks on end. frustrated
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Apr 29, 2007 2:59 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
heinzketchup
heinzketchupheinzketchupFort Mill, South Carolina USA11 Threads 1 Polls 1,799 Posts
irish No, everytime I miss a women I go out and fell some treesirish
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Apr 29, 2007 3:02 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
Theresalopez
TheresalopezTheresalopezLincoln, USA6 Threads 73 Posts
rolling on the floor laughing

Jenhead banger
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Apr 29, 2007 3:06 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
harleylvr
harleylvrharleylvrFulton, Texas USA82 Threads 1,079 Posts
Those splinters will kill ya'
banana applause
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Apr 29, 2007 3:21 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
irishluck1975
irishluck1975irishluck1975hollywood, USA29 Threads 749 Posts
;irish:enjoying it all while we can irish
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Apr 29, 2007 3:34 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
arabella
arabellaarabellaNear Farmington, Maine USA98 Threads 1 Polls 6,199 Posts
Other than the travel part of meeting, I think a lot of people are nervous about being rejected.

This is not like meeting in person first and THEN asking to spend time together.

It's much more risky since the perception may be different than the reality.



There have been group gatherings on this site. And I believe the results were enjoyable but not as expected dunno
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Apr 29, 2007 3:43 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
cherokeemoon
cherokeemooncherokeemoongrove, Oklahoma USA13 Threads 711 Posts
i think ur right dragondog4.I went 400 miles to meet a guy last yr who I had talked to for 5 yrs.Many phone conversations too.after we met he called me and said his truck was broke down in NM and he needed 4000 and wouls i loan it to him.I did sigh and he went bye bye.The rest are from Australia,UK,ect.doh
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Apr 29, 2007 3:49 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
Theresalopez
TheresalopezTheresalopezLincoln, USA6 Threads 73 Posts
crying
I let don't myself get that envolve anymore I guess, hoping for that right one to fall out of the sky,laugh , and hope he doesn't fall on melaugh

Jenhead banger
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Apr 29, 2007 4:03 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
They have to be the right person, can't just hook up because you're lonely.

Distance is another reason.
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Apr 29, 2007 4:16 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
irishluck1975
irishluck1975irishluck1975hollywood, USA29 Threads 749 Posts
thumbs up
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Apr 29, 2007 4:22 PM CST If the men and women on this site are so lonely why arent more of us getting together
Hi_From_Mpls
Hi_From_MplsHi_From_MplsMINNEAPOLIS, Minnesota USA2 Threads 88 Posts
Because, people are more shy/introvert/self-concious in real life!!!
so, they dont interact to the people this much!
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