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May 10, 2007 1:40 PM CST do u think ppl realy give it a chance
Jai7488
Jai7488Jai7488Auckland, New Zealand1 Threads 11 Posts
i have sent emails to some guys, only to realise that they havent been on for a while, some for over a month, do u really think ppl give it a chance, is there any point.
if any one has tips for me, plz, i need them. help
please!!!
Jai
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May 10, 2007 1:49 PM CST do u think ppl realy give it a chance
Galactic_bodhi
Galactic_bodhiGalactic_bodhiAkron, Ohio USA609 Threads 1 Polls 9,196 Posts
I say, meet and interact with people in the forums as well, then you know they're active on the site.

Just my $.02.

TET
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May 10, 2007 1:55 PM CST do u think ppl realy give it a chance
MarkDwayne
MarkDwayneMarkDwayneDoha, Qatar225 Posts
I know how you feel...

Of the strikingly high total of 3 women in Qatar for which I sent "Hello" flowers, one was viewed and ananswered, and two were not even viewed at all....

My advice...

Set no timetable for succes or failure, and allow these things to sort themselves out as they will!

Destiny sets and chooses her own path! (Mr. Spock, Star Trek, 1969!)

Cheers!
wine
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May 10, 2007 1:56 PM CST do u think ppl realy give it a chance
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
Give it time, be patient, be yourself, post in the forums, etc.

If and when a relationship is meant to happen, it'll happen...whether it is here, online, or otherwise.


Have fun & Good luck!


wine
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May 10, 2007 3:01 PM CST do u think ppl realy give it a chance
dragondog4
dragondog4dragondog4Perth, Western Australia Australia55 Threads 3,912 Posts
How do you mean give it ago.
I think it depends on the person and where they are looking.

If they are already an out there person this is just another avenue that they are employing. It is just another form of advertising to seek what they need. One would assume they did the job so will they have moved on with that special someone.

Others as you say wanted instant gratification. And gave up before they even started.
Others are to busy with there professional life to mamage their personal life properly. So they are long periods between drinks.

Look at it this way Jamie. In truth it is them that is missing out on you. Not the other way round.

You know you are special and a very special guy will be provided for you one day. Be patient and have fun. hug cheers
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May 10, 2007 3:16 PM CST do u think ppl realy give it a chance
cristalwater
cristalwatercristalwaterdüsseldorf, Nordrhein-Westfalen Germany35 Posts
Maybe it's better to have a search and send only flowers to men who are shown as online
Or have a look in threads and contact men who just posted something.

Men are in the same situation because loads of them don't get a reply (I've been told ). I think women should show some respect and just say thanks even if they are not interested . I always do :-)

hug

cartwheel
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May 10, 2007 8:09 PM CST do u think ppl realy give it a chance
rwantin
rwantinrwantinRoyal Oak, Michigan USA17 Threads 8,924 Posts
What TET and Red said. At least that's what I was thinking. Really. I was...grin
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