Are you so scared of Loving that you're not really LIVING?? (8)
i think if it happens then great, but if not then it wasnt meant to be. but you are living!!!!not existing
Am I scared of loving that I'm not living? My friends tell me that I am and that I back off whenever I feel myself geting too close to a girl... are they right? I'm not sure! 
hey hi pete 
Hello Pete, if you looked back on personal history, - might you see a pattern of 'backing off'?
I understand this, but can it be identified as 'protective' or 'defensive' ? mmmm...
Of course you have to get out there and work for it, that's the way life works, nothing gets handed to you on a plate.
I think the idea of fate is very nice, but what about all the people who believed in fate, then grew old and wrinkly on thier own
?
Sorry, lol, a bit of a depressing thought, but it had to be said
I think the idea of fate is very nice, but what about all the people who believed in fate, then grew old and wrinkly on thier own
?Sorry, lol, a bit of a depressing thought, but it had to be said
i am scared of loving a bit to be honest. i think after you have been hurt you sometimes hold a little bit back for self protection.
although i don't think that i am not "living". i have a little boy who i love, no holds barred, not scared of loving him at all! if it wasn't for him then i guess the statement might be kinda true for me.
....this is way too deep for this early on a saturday morning!
although i don't think that i am not "living". i have a little boy who i love, no holds barred, not scared of loving him at all! if it wasn't for him then i guess the statement might be kinda true for me.
....this is way too deep for this early on a saturday morning!
Well said, elegantlady
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... it comes from a friend suggesting that unless I 'get out there' and take chances for a relationship, that I'm not living, but existing.
I get the point (and the well meaning intention!) but my argument is I shouldn't have to work that hard..
...if it happens, great. If not, then I'm still happy, only without the high and lows of emtional intimacy.
Does anyone have a similair scenario, comment, etc..??