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I didn't take my son initially as it was suppose to be a short term breather allowing her to regather her thoughts and and decide on the direction she wanted.
Fine I didn't give her that space to think. I pressurised looking to talk and communicate. I got told to shove off its over. I still didn't take my son as i didn't want to upset situation further and hoped for reconciliation. I saw my son every weekend.
Now I have accepted its over and i want my son. Yes I will accept shared custody but I want it in writing.
I never walked away from my son and I never said I wouldn't lokk after him. I was kicked out and she would of fought me with every ounce of her body if I'd tried to take my son physically. I have him every weekend even though it means my sport and social activities don't exist due to my son. He still comes first to me.
So why am i being penalised. The Taxman wants $400 a month to pay her child support. I can't afford this it means loosing my house that I went out and bought after our break up, & leaving both me and my son homeless. Why do I have to pay for something I'm willing to do. Why is she entitled to say she is Primary Carer when custody of our Son and possesions of the house have never been settled; Are still in dispute. She only went to the Taxman to spite me for going 50/50 care of my son.
ITS NOT FAIR.