Finding one,true,genuine,woman? (10)

Is there such a thing as a genuine human being any more?Or is it we are all out for blood,of one sort or another?
I have been on this site,and many other sites,searching for my one,and only,true friend,but am finding out just the opposite.
Everything is fine,up and until the woman finds out I have no money,then it's bye bye,like a flash!Has anyone else ever experienced this,or is it just me,and my vivd imagination?
Where does one go to find genuinality,true friendship,and honest to God TRUE Love?Or is this all just a thing of the past?
Any suggestions would be much appreciated,and Thanks for listening.





Sincerely,



Rod

seems to me that people are very flakey now. maybe ive just changed.

Dating has changed since I first started dating.
Some women are high maintenence, they would be looking for someone that would be able to handle it, and making an income themselves. A woman would not look for a man that has a low incme if they require more. That may be shallow but it is the way it is.
Some women want material things and that may take more money than some may make.
If a woman is used to having what they want and need, that may take money, also.
This also happens to women, also. Believe it or not. It is true. The man wants the women to have money also.......Maybe equals, maybe he feels he is supporting. Maybe he feels she is after his money and what he has to offer and not love. And vice versa.
Dating has changed that is for sure and getting to know people, also. Learn as one goes along.

Hi Rod~ There are many genuine women out here~~especially in Oregon. My honesty often catches people off guard. Grab a postive attitude and hang on!! Stick your neck out and if you like a profile~let her know. Many women will not make the first move. If you seem to be attracting the wrong women...maybe look at what you are using for bait. Just like fishing~~how many times do you cast your line before catching a keeper???

JMO~~Sweetsurrender

I think there is one thing of just not having alot of money or the other of have nothing at all... I have been used several times. to where the men come in my life.. come in and then just sit on their butt and wanted me to support everything.. and I mean everything... I still had to mow my lawns and clean the house while they sat on their butt... and played on the computer flirting with other girls... and said.. yea I am looking for work... hahaha lol... so I think women can be paranoid.

I honestly think you are looking in the wrong places. Some of us are more than willing to work and pay our own bills and love a man for who they are and not what their income is. I have been in long term relationships for years at a time and worked my butt off to get things paid including his schooling. We do exsist.

I find people are superficial.. look at looks first then say nay.. move on.. I have met some neat guys that understand we are not 18 anymore.. I want that connection with that special guy I can spoil.. to hike, talk, travel.. just be together.. the romance will come as we know each other. But I found once your on these sites, the people, in my case men, want to keep looking around the corner at the next new post.. is she the one, dump me.. not right..

i think you are away from the reality ,,, I think the girls don't want to stay with you because they find out you want a one night stand,,, IT IS REALLY NOT FAIR.






I have been in Oregon for about a month, Up to now, NO girls talk to the depest part of my heart, I wonder why, I think the life in the states kills the romantic moment you want to share with your love.

FOr me, Money means nothing because , THANKS GOD , I have more than I need.

But how funny the years just pass me by without finding the one i have been looking for since i was born

by the way i am not looking for a girl, I am looking for an angel who can take me from the earth to the heaven where she belongs

I think women just need to feel security. I certainly do not want to have to pay a mans way. I want a man able to stand on his own and to be able to make sure if the need be he can care for me also, not just for finaces but for love.