I had controlling parents and men in relationships the same. It is not a comfortable place to be... it hard to love, to care, to trust, to be safe in a place like that. But, you can trust with the right person, and people in general.
In real life I would like people to notice that because I come across shy, more quiet and reserved.... that there is a whole lot more to me than that. On line I don't know if you notice that I really don't know how to talk to people here, I don't know how to jump into the conversations like you all do so nicely, it is foreign to me and I am new at this... I am being my self.. but on line it is a different kind of friends community... I am trying though to learn it.
One can be lonely.....even amongst all your friends. You are a very nice and sincere lady..... alot of the younger and in our age group are going through the same thing.... keep busy is what I'm told... keep putting your self out there so they know you are there.. You will be noticed... Friends help and are there, too....
This is a great thread HonestNFaithful .... I was thinking when I was younger guys always did the asking for dances and dates etc. but it has been changing..... That is a strange feeling.....so I understand how a man may feel at times. But, hey....it doesn't hurt me any just grin and go on....if turned down.....
Isn't birth controll pills a prescription from a Dr. ... She is 19 .....maybe on her own...working, college.... Sounds active.....maybe... Keeps her from getting pregnant, dieseases.... Decisions, decisions... but understand though....
Yes, twice....being I was a quieter, shy, gal.... I went for the wild, fun guys (single).... but they weren't good for me at all. So, I learned.....that good, nice guys are my type .... alot of fun and very loveable, also.
To those who put up those funny jokes and humorus things ..... appreciated for your laughs. To those who are poetic..... appreciated for creativeness in writings. For those of you who are here for that someone special, that suits you..... hope you find that person.
I'd like to share a long distance relationship that did work in my home town... She lives here and he lived in another country.. They emailed, phone called and he made visits... He moved here and they are married now... I would say for some it is finances, some it is hard to not be close by, but for some it's gut feelings and thinking on it.... I wish for you the best......
I like those ..... Deep thinking outside of the box as it has been said a time or two... Makes for some nice long chats....the soul one would be a fun one..... Thanks for sharing it..
Wow, I could never write as well ..... I watch the news.... it is amazing how people can see it ... You write a mixture of different things and you do it all well...
More often than not I am more reserved...... I roll with the punches...but when I do speak I mean it.... If I feel strongly on something.... as a cause or injustness I have a tendency to be more blunt...
I can think of some that I would kiss .. and I wouldn't need to drink to do it either. I would really have to be drunk to kiss someone I ordinarily wouldn't kiss....
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RE: Controlling personalities
I had controlling parentsand men in relationships the same.
It is not a comfortable place to be...
it hard to love, to care, to trust, to be safe in a place like that.
But, you can trust with the right person, and people in general.