She is 19.....an adult and came to you as an adult......I would have....as a woman, offered to take her to the clinic to have a check up and have it done correctly. It would have been different if she was under age..........JMO
No it's not your responsibilty, but if a friend came to you in need of the same thing, would you lend it to her?
I say stop lending her money after this, but don't play with preganancy. She obviously is not as responsible as she should be, so why take the chance on having her become an irresponsible mother.
Isn't birth controll pills a prescription from a Dr. ... She is 19 .....maybe on her own...working, college.... Sounds active.....maybe... Keeps her from getting pregnant, dieseases.... Decisions, decisions... but understand though....
I think I'd just buy her the pills. Babies are expensive. But........if there is a moral question, it wou.d make it more difficult. I mean, most of us went crazy when we were 19, so maybe it would be good for her and the kid she may have had from her experiences.
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This happened to me tonight and I said NO to her request.