I look through all the threads and all the posts,and it seems like there are alot of folks,just like me to a degree.Wondering why it is so hard to find that special feeling called Love.They say have faith,but faith only lasts so long,and then you begin to wonder what comes next. What does come next?
They do have match making sites,like eHarmony,but who has that kind of cash? Pay it out and still no tomatoe!!! I have tried alot of dating sites,and iam stuck in here,with no place to turn.Why pay for another possible let down?
I agree. I have been through a lot in the last year, and now I have found a great guy. And it was when I least expected it. I thought all along my heart belonged to another, but ended up, he was holding it hostage. I took it back just in time. I don't know if this is the one forever, but I am going to enjoy every moment we have together.
I saw her recently. she was on her way to my heart. can't wait for her arrival. yours will show up too, I am sure....remember the movie line? 'iif you build, they'll come'.....
One can be lonely.....even amongst all your friends. You are a very nice and sincere lady..... alot of the younger and in our age group are going through the same thing.... keep busy is what I'm told... keep putting your self out there so they know you are there.. You will be noticed... Friends help and are there, too....
Good question. Not sure if too many want perfection or what it is. It seems like a lot base a woman on her looks or financial status, though, and that's someone to avoid anyway. :)
there are a lot of people out there that Ponder such a question. It is not uncommon. I will say this...it is almost mathamatically impossible for someone not be able to find someone. Love, Perfection. who defines perfection? You do. who really wants perfection? nobody, unless they have a severe self-esteem issue. who exatly are You looking for? are you going down a list? checking it twice? seeing what flaws they have? if you are doing this. You are missing out on not only what someone says but how they say it. perhaps being in the moment is where Love hides. what comes next you ask? what DOES come next it time. and as we all know. time becomes what we want it to be. give up? keep going? Either way time will go on.
Well, all one can really do is ‘be oneself’ – anything else will never stack up, even with your very own self.
But of course one can always work at taking excursions outside the person you know as yourself ….. lets face it, most of us have to really work at expanding ourselves!!
Reminds me of profile I saw the other day, on another site. I can honestly say I have NEVER laid eyes on anybody so damn hot [sizzlin’ more like it] – I had to laugh when I read her profile, she just had “You wanna know me – email me and ask!”
Wonder what she is gonna do after old man ‘tick tock’ has been chippin’ away for a few years.
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