Enlighten me please! (34)

Jul 2, 2007 12:12 AM CST Enlighten me please!
Kindladyxx
KindladyxxKindladyxxDorset, England UK3 Threads 23 Posts
Would love if someone could please enlighten me.
Recently whenever I have logged into the forum people are arguing, which is quite embarrassing sometimes to the extend it goes, I thought we where all on here to find someone and yes to have a chat hence the forum but not to that extent.
I personnally would be very unlikelly to join a forum after been at work the whole day if it is to be between a crossfire of argument.
However this is just my opinion so please do not jump up and down on it, but would be very grateful if someone could enlighten me on this?
confused
Jul 2, 2007 3:07 AM CST Enlighten me please!
trish123
trish123trish123Macclesfield, Cheshire, England UK177 Threads 4 Polls 13,724 Posts
Good points - it does my head in too and I find it so sad.

there is more to life than slagging people off but for some strange reason people cant get beyond that kind of behaviour.

I wonder if its something to do with crowd mentality and people wanting to fit in - to be 'popular'
Jul 2, 2007 4:20 AM CST Enlighten me please!
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Well, I think there's no avoiding arguments and conflicts on a forum. We all have different personalities and views and will clash sometimes. It's just like in real life to be honest. As long as it gets sorted out in the end either by the people involved or by the CS staff and I think the CS staff always try to be fair and helpful in matters such as this thumbs up peace
Jul 2, 2007 12:44 PM CST Enlighten me please!
Kindladyxx
KindladyxxKindladyxxDorset, England UK3 Threads 23 Posts
Thank you for enlightening me ladies, yes I do understand that people will not always agree on things, and that everyone is different, with different personalities however sometimes could it not be a case to agree to disagree than to have it taken so far.
Well that is my opinion anyway.confused
Jul 2, 2007 1:12 PM CST Enlighten me please!
bubblywan
bubblywanbubblywanChester, Cheshire, England UK12 Threads 435 Posts
I couldnt agree with you more, however you also have to realise that not everyone on here is what they profess to be - there are a lot of snakes and sometimes nice people can get sucked in. Some people come on here because they like to wind people up and some come on to play games with other people and some have a sense of humour and some have no humour at all and worse - dont understand anyone else's humour and then ridicule or just be plain rude. So you can see its a bit like walking through a mine field and having to watch your back the whole time. There are genuinly some really nice people who are helpful and kind but the others just have their own agenda.
Hope you have been enlightened.
Jul 2, 2007 1:38 PM CST Enlighten me please!
bulldog66
bulldog66bulldog66doncaster, UK35 Threads 3,680 Posts
iam not here to argue ,some people get overworked when another persons opion doesnt tally with theres,thats the wondefull thing about democracy ,
but hey if a thread offends dont post in it just play in the next one its abig old sandbox........
oh n welcome kindlady............paulwave
Jul 2, 2007 2:05 PM CST Enlighten me please!
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
cswelcome
Jul 2, 2007 2:07 PM CST Enlighten me please!
scarlets
scarletsscarletsllanelli, Dyfed, Wales UK6 Threads 1,386 Posts
welcome to CShandshake cheers
Jul 2, 2007 2:11 PM CST Enlighten me please!
bulldog66
bulldog66bulldog66doncaster, UK35 Threads 3,680 Posts
welcome to c.s matewave
Jul 2, 2007 2:11 PM CST Enlighten me please!
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
hi bully wave wave
Jul 2, 2007 2:19 PM CST Enlighten me please!
wigandave
wigandavewigandavewigan, Greater Manchester, England UK8 Posts
hi all ,nice to meet u.hope u didnt mind me havin a sayso.just lookin to make some new friendshandshake
Jul 2, 2007 2:30 PM CST Enlighten me please!
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
your entitled to your say so thumbs up thumbs up

im debbie, nice to meet you handshake handshake
Jul 2, 2007 2:48 PM CST Enlighten me please!
wigandave
wigandavewigandavewigan, Greater Manchester, England UK8 Posts
hi debbie.i think its laughable that some people have to resort to bullyin n namecalling just to get some attention,im sure theres a site on ere where they can go n do that,n let the people who wanna chat get on wiv itscold
Jul 2, 2007 2:55 PM CST Enlighten me please!
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
i agree. unfortuantly there are some horrible people on here mumbling mumbling mumbling
Jul 2, 2007 3:11 PM CST Enlighten me please!
wigandave
wigandavewigandavewigan, Greater Manchester, England UK8 Posts
sorry debs,got to go. been fun c u soon xx dave
Jul 2, 2007 3:12 PM CST Enlighten me please!
deborah12
deborah12deborah12wolverhampton, UK89 Threads 11,243 Posts
wave wave wave
Jul 2, 2007 3:44 PM CST Enlighten me please!
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
I completely and totally agree with this statement thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Jul 2, 2007 3:44 PM CST Enlighten me please!
mickeyscouse
mickeyscousemickeyscouseLondon, Greater London, England UK27 Threads 1 Polls 2,065 Posts
Keep your friends close

Keep your enemys closer cool
Jul 2, 2007 3:46 PM CST Enlighten me please!
bubblywan
bubblywanbubblywanChester, Cheshire, England UK12 Threads 435 Posts
Never truly understood how you can do that Mickeydunno
Jul 2, 2007 3:58 PM CST Enlighten me please!
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Also, agree with this statement even more, so looks like we are all agreed going by the posts in this thread that we have our fair share of "horrible people" and "attention seekers".

Okay, so now we have the verdict, not so easy to find a way of dealing with all of this.

1) We must remember that these people probably don't even recognize themselves by these descriptions.

2)We must remember that these people probably can't write more than 3 lines at a time of text, failing that they have to use the 3 emoticon option which is against the rules anyway but sadly it does still happen.

3)We must also remember there is no intelligence test on sites such as this.

In my opinion I think we should all make allowances for these type of people and all try to get on with each other peacefully peace
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