why do guys go for looks rather personality? ( Archived) (119)

Jul 6, 2007 4:25 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
belfast_girl
belfast_girlbelfast_girlBelfast, Antrim Ireland5 Threads 10 Posts
hey just wondering why guys go 4 look rather personality
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Jul 6, 2007 4:27 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Immaturitylaugh
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Jul 6, 2007 4:27 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
You see.....It takes the male species more time to grow up than the female....rolling on the floor laughing
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Jul 6, 2007 4:28 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
But seriously...It goes both ways...
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Jul 6, 2007 4:29 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Jacko21
Jacko21Jacko21St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta179 Threads 2,718 Posts
I like a combination of both, one without the other is a no no for mecheers
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Jul 6, 2007 4:29 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
lovaboy
lovaboylovaboyBig Bad Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK47 Threads 6,806 Posts
scold good job you said that.....rolling on the floor laughing tongue
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Jul 6, 2007 4:34 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
It is true!!...professor
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Jul 6, 2007 4:37 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
They do this because they'd rather look at someone nice than someone who looks awful and I don't blame them. Plus, I think women should make an effort to look nice for men thumbs up
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Jul 6, 2007 4:39 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
I have had men tell me they regret looking for a "trophy". After awhile people tend to look for some closeness. If it began as a superficial relation than most likely always will be.
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Jul 6, 2007 4:40 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Jacko21
Jacko21Jacko21St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta179 Threads 2,718 Posts
nicely put Zellarronne, guys should also take the time and effort to look good for the gals too thoughhug
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Jul 6, 2007 4:42 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
I dunno but I do think physical attraction on some level is required if you are seeking a partner...
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Jul 6, 2007 4:44 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
Yes, you do have a point there thumbs up hug
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Jul 6, 2007 4:48 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
This is it, it's all very well, sharing same hobbies and all the other personality compatibility cosy stuff but at the end of the day if we don't look nice for our blokes they start eyeing up the women who doll themselves up uk
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Jul 6, 2007 4:51 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
That is right..but it goes both ways. I think there comes a time when you have been through it all and know what you want. All the rest is natural if you find another soul ready to do that too and do it mutually.
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Jul 6, 2007 4:51 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Jacko21
Jacko21Jacko21St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta179 Threads 2,718 Posts
a lifelong partner that you find attractive, that's so
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Jul 6, 2007 4:51 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Zellarrone1
Zellarrone1Zellarrone1Hull, East Riding of Yorkshire, England UK33 Threads 4 Polls 7,644 Posts
I've only really had big headed men who look after themselves a lot so didnt think about the beer gutted ones. all my ex blokes have been more vaner than me to be honest. i remember one of them was so mad when I got my hair cut short that he wouldnt walk down street with me plus he used to make me wear make up all the time or he couldn't stand to look at me laugh
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Jul 6, 2007 4:54 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
Sounds like you had a very superficial man and maybe you were to to a certain extent or just wanted to plese..I dunno..dunno


Been there though.

The biug headed men tend to be controlling and bossy almost as if they have an insecurity. They need praise all the time and want to keep you below them.

Been there, done it, like I said....have faith..take the pain and learn...
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Jul 6, 2007 4:56 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Lionhearted1967
Lionhearted1967Lionhearted1967London, Ontario Canada143 Threads 10 Polls 9,887 Posts
in other words..."growing pains"...sometimes they are necessary..
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Jul 6, 2007 5:00 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
Jacko21
Jacko21Jacko21St. Pauls Bay, Majjistral Malta179 Threads 2,718 Posts
Glad you called them blokes and not men........obviously they don't know the first thing of pleasing a woman.............only their selves from the sound of it
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Jul 6, 2007 5:03 AM CST why do guys go for looks rather personality?
lorraine
lorrainelorraineDublin, Ireland104 Threads 2,717 Posts
I know I am greedy but i want both, looks and personality
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