They do this because they'd rather look at someone nice than someone who looks awful and I don't blame them. Plus, I think women should make an effort to look nice for men
I have had men tell me they regret looking for a "trophy". After awhile people tend to look for some closeness. If it began as a superficial relation than most likely always will be.
This is it, it's all very well, sharing same hobbies and all the other personality compatibility cosy stuff but at the end of the day if we don't look nice for our blokes they start eyeing up the women who doll themselves up
That is right..but it goes both ways. I think there comes a time when you have been through it all and know what you want. All the rest is natural if you find another soul ready to do that too and do it mutually.
I've only really had big headed men who look after themselves a lot so didnt think about the beer gutted ones. all my ex blokes have been more vaner than me to be honest. i remember one of them was so mad when I got my hair cut short that he wouldnt walk down street with me plus he used to make me wear make up all the time or he couldn't stand to look at me
Sounds like you had a very superficial man and maybe you were to to a certain extent or just wanted to plese..I dunno..
Been there though.
The biug headed men tend to be controlling and bossy almost as if they have an insecurity. They need praise all the time and want to keep you below them.
Been there, done it, like I said....have faith..take the pain and learn...
Glad you called them blokes and not men........obviously they don't know the first thing of pleasing a woman.............only their selves from the sound of it
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