is anyone totally clueless about men ? (24)
Czech31moorhead, Minnesota USA12 Threads 81 PostsI dont know if is my blond hair is making me totally clueless or anyone totally clueless about the way men act or thinking about?
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men are easy- you can lead them on for a while unitl you get what you need
you have what they want- so you work it girl
you have what they want- so you work it girl
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i like your styles on men , u rock!
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Yeah I am........
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Don't worry, Pete
There's probably some drug you can take for that in another thread LOL
There's probably some drug you can take for that in another thread LOL
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Yeah the whole worlds a drug these days Arabella..What's next a drug to make people gay...Dunno...lol
Maybe If I smoke some Mary then I will understand men..lmao
Maybe If I smoke some Mary then I will understand men..lmao
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LMAO Pete i needed that
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LMAO too!!!
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Sometimes I'm clueless about myself :D
I've been in here for about 6-7 months, never really making any moves on anyone and not getting anyone showing an interest.
I had someone send me a flower today. I sent back an email saying thank you and a couple reasons why I didn't think we would be compatible. Mainly the fact she wanted children and she's a little outside my age range, she's 33.
I even complimented her on being a beautiful woman which she is. I wished her the best in finding that special someone.
Now I think I'll go bang my head against a wall or doorjamb.
I've been in here for about 6-7 months, never really making any moves on anyone and not getting anyone showing an interest.
I had someone send me a flower today. I sent back an email saying thank you and a couple reasons why I didn't think we would be compatible. Mainly the fact she wanted children and she's a little outside my age range, she's 33.
I even complimented her on being a beautiful woman which she is. I wished her the best in finding that special someone.
Now I think I'll go bang my head against a wall or doorjamb.
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yes me, i´m wondering who that guy is - staring at me every morning in da bathroom.
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That's me, and I'm not a guy...lol
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LOL..Lutz
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The blonde thing might have something to do with it..lol
I think it depends on the man. Some men are more in touch with their feminine sides and relate to women easier and tend to be more nurturing. On the other extreme, there are men that are macho and think their d*ck are what rules and women are supposed to be subserviant. I like guys who are kind of in the middle.
I think it depends on the man. Some men are more in touch with their feminine sides and relate to women easier and tend to be more nurturing. On the other extreme, there are men that are macho and think their d*ck are what rules and women are supposed to be subserviant. I like guys who are kind of in the middle.
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I think personality and character has alot to do with it too. You are right Zero.
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I'd have to agree with the personality aspect. People who have a hard time opening up to their significant other often has a hard time expressing their problems and whatnot, and while she's being all angsty, the guy's wondering what the heck's going on.
Of course, this is all HYPOTHETICAL...no real experience behind that...~shifty eyes~
^^ But yes, personality and character have a lot to do with whether or not people are clueless to each other, because it still boils down to communication (or lack of). At least, in my opinion.
Of course, this is all HYPOTHETICAL...no real experience behind that...~shifty eyes~
^^ But yes, personality and character have a lot to do with whether or not people are clueless to each other, because it still boils down to communication (or lack of). At least, in my opinion.
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I think personality and Character is genderless.
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In general, yes, but when you find a puzzle worth solving its all works out and you learn everything he wants you to know about him, and sometimes even a little peak at what he doesn't even know about himself
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Yup..A good partner can show you things about yourself too!
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According to feminist thinker Sandra Bem, gender is a continuum, not resembling the current dualistic model. Currently, there are certain characteristics that society engenders, such as empathy being a feminine trait and agressiveness being masculine. According to current though, men should have male traits and vise versa for females. Bem says, and I agree, that this is a constrictive societal model.
People, in reality, have combinations of masculine and femine traits. Perhaps confusion comes from people attempting to fit within this societal construct: e.g. men who supress their empathy and women who ignore their aggression. (There are, of course, many other traits; but for concision sake...)
Mayhap the people we mesh with romantically are people who's life experience and masculine/feminine "Profile" compliments our own.
People, in reality, have combinations of masculine and femine traits. Perhaps confusion comes from people attempting to fit within this societal construct: e.g. men who supress their empathy and women who ignore their aggression. (There are, of course, many other traits; but for concision sake...)
Mayhap the people we mesh with romantically are people who's life experience and masculine/feminine "Profile" compliments our own.
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