sunshine1976bolton, Greater Manchester, England UK53 posts
knowing everything that could happen is boring...takes the excitement out of things..just relax and enjoy and the person may be aroung the corner...always seem to find someone when not looking
You are a young man - 25 years. The aloneness probably may need a spiritual solution. The hopelessness - same type of solution. Those things will need to be remedied by you.
Find things in your life that bring you joy. Music - learn to play an instrument? Hobbie, ... what would you LOVE to learn to collect or to do? Develop friendships... (ask a higher power to provide some friends for you, it works!)
A girlfriend isn't going to fill the loneliness. Fill up yourself first, and have something to offer her - joy, fun, different interests you have developed.
I know waiting is the hardest part but when it happens for you, if it does, you will know......and good things come to those who wait....just keep your self busy and she'll come to you....maybe at the grocery.....
The right one will come when you least expect it....and as far as a "perfect match" that would make it too boring...the variables in life is what makes relationships interesting
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