why does some guys act so dumb. (11)

hi, i just think some guys act so dumb like my exs. there were total a**hole to me. rude disrespectful.

i mean don't get me wrong i like for guys to know what they are gettin when they get with me. thats why i say i have three kids. so if guys have a problem with it they can just keep on going .

Sorry your having hard time right now babyjen. I wanna say, that eventually, hopefully, you'll finally meet the nice one.

Have you ever stopped to think that you might be part of the problem? I mean, how many guys have you been with? Are they all bad? Get real. Look at yourself first. Oh, and be careful calling guys dumb: in the title of this thread you used incorrect grammar. It should read: Why do some guys act so dumb. Have a great day...

It -does- sound as if you've had some very bad past experiences. Try not to let those experiences "color all men the same color". There -are- many 'good' ones out there...just make sure you're ready when the time comes. I wish you the best of luck!

yes what soulmate said...

I am with the other posters here... you obviously are not very happy with your experiences. This probably comes through in your personality so the guys get with you, get what they want, then leave. I can't say the guys are good or would do better but I can say you're attracting the wrong kind of guys. There are lots of questions to ask yourself... are you respecting them? Are you being supportive of their life's ambitions? Do you give them free reign or have specific expectations of them? How well do you take care of yourself so that you are attractive to them? For a relationship to be good and both to enjoy being together the relationship should be one in which both can't wait to get home and always happy and anxious to see each other. I do know that the worst insult to a woman is to be told that she's over weight. It is difficult for many women to control that. But, if you really want to be happy and to attract a guy and keep him you'll work to be happy and to get your body in shape. You will feel far better and be happier with yourself. You've got to be happy with yourself before you can make someone else happy. Everyone wants to see a happy face... can you imagine how Walmart would be such a failure if they had a sad face rather than the happy face on all those signs?

I believe ignorance seems to run in both genders don't single all of us males out as being dumb.

Well said bamabob!