I definitely prefer the man to make the moves, because I am very shy in real life, this is my personality robot you see here in the forums. But I will give heavy signs, he'll know because he'll see it in my eyes. If I'm looking at his face, his hands, his... I'm interested.
The turn-on starts with the grazing touches, a hand on my shoulder that lingers, perhaps "accidentally" brushing my neck, gazing into eachother's eyes and feeling myself blush - you know you've got me then....
And if you want me, kiss me. I'm helpless after that. I love to kiss.
cutelildevilsmomportsmouth, New Hampshire USA7,772 posts
I like to kiss too then if I want it my man knows it. .I am shy too but once I'm in the mood I have no qualms about taking matters well in hand.Foreplay is a must for me though.I like to explore.
I love to be kissed softly on the neck and right behind my ears. I also love it when a man runs his fingers through my hair. However I will admit I am not to shy to make the first move sometimes just the being in control for once is a turn on for both people.
I'm taking notes here ladies, do carry on, but for the record, I do prefer to make the first move myself. I hope I get it right, to any hints you might give me are all for the good, but I want to make the first move, please. Why? Well, women terrify me, and if a woman makes the first move that might really panic me. You gals is fearsome creatures. Headstrong. Flightly. Dangerous. If you weren't so damn desirable I wouldn't risk it.
I think men like to make the moves, but they look for a sign from the woman. Also depends if we're talking about a public or private "approach".
In public, dancing is always a great way to turn a man on - slow dancing or grinding up close. Hips and hands everywhere and fat chance he'll walk away :) Or the more subtle hand on the knee (either partner) and then moving north?
In private, food is always fun, especially the kind that gives out that "come hither" signal - strawberries dipped in chocolate, whip cream on the side and who knows where that might end up?
My ears are very very sensitive - such that I don't like them nuzzled or blown in. I've never understood this errogenous zone, because it doesn't work for me, so I guess I'm missing out. Touch my neck, though, kiss it, and I'm all yours.
The inside of the palm gets me going, too. Isn't that funny?
The Rite of Spring, a ballet suite by Igor Stravinsky If making love is a dance of two people, as the awesome one suggested, then I think that is the music that must be playing, at least for the finale. That or Carmina Burana. But Le Sacre de Printemps is ever so much more uh, umph!
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and what really turns you on? ok woman what about you?