No problem karen and fallingman Keep celebrating your your body. It is great in this day and age that people are happy and content with themselves, but keep in mind us skinnies
The older I get the more meat I want to see and feel on a man. I sit here in 20 C+ and am freezing. My electric blanket is the only thing that keeps my brain from getting frostbitten...
Besides some of my female friends who are cuddlier are such bags of laughs and easy going its so much more fun being around them, then those who are skinny/neurotic about weight loss which in the end taintes their outlook on life in general.
Well I know lots of big girls who are obsessed with diets and asking me how often i go to the gym and what diet i am on. They seem to be the ones who are neurotic about weight loss.
1) One is self-confident, 1.68 m and around 117 kg and in a relationship (with someone from internet) since 3 years who adores her every pound. (reason malnutrition and cruelty in childhood) Quick wit and bright.
2) Another girl-friend 1,75 m and (my guess) 120-140 kg legal assistant, speaks several languages, in a relationship with someone she met via the net 6 years ago. Some 8 years ago she opend a forum for cuddly people and met him through that. It's became the leading forum regarding that topic and she is regularly invited to talk-shows on that subject. (reason thyroid gland removed early in life and been on wrong dosage of medication for about 20 years of her life) Dry humour and very witty.
3) He works night-shifts (1.79 m and 115 kg), foreign correspondent, travels every two months for 4 weeks to the states, working there ... constant change of time rhythm and bad choice of food got him to where he is now. Mensa-member - highly intelligent, no social skills, but great sense of humour as well. Single
4) Government employee, she is responsible for national security issues (ports etc.) 1,72 - 125 kg, brains no end, happily married for 18 years. (Abusive childhood) Funny like hell.
lostsoulinspacechocowinity, North Carolina USA521 posts
I found that im interrested in bigger men, most of ya'll know i'm new to this kind of dating and i'm very old school, What i could not understand is why some are upset with my weight. then it hit me! I never told ya'll, 3 years ago, i was 314 lbs, so, im pritty happy with my 190 now. but, with ya'll just meeting me all you see is what im packing now, I guess i should have said something, but, i was very happy with my weight and still am, I work everyday to make myself better for me, as long as a person is happy with them self Im all for it,
I am a full figured woman and have been most of my life...I would say that EIGHT out of TEn friends that I have ARE way slimmer than I.....however, I love them dearly.........
I do not COMPARE myself to my pals.......we are all unique in every way....
I do not bash women who are slimmer or wayyyyyyy slimmer than I !
I love me.........and what I have to offer, only the lucky man who becomes my "rocking chair" soulmate will know.......but until then, I embrace the thought that we are all unique, I am who I am and someone WILL appreciate me for all I have to offer.......
I don't "diet" but I do watch what I eat....and don't overindulge much
my preference IS a huskier type of man........or stocky however, if a slimmer man asked me out, why would I say no? of COURSE I would accept it.........
we usually end up with someone whom we never thought we would be with!
my motto???????????
I'm an XXL chick..........which means EXTRA EXTRA LOVELY.... WHY SETTLE FOR A CHAIR WHEN YOU CAN HAVE A SOFA!
PEACE OUT...........
PS: WHY AREN'T THERE ANY MEN IN TORONTO, CANADA WHOM PREFER BBW WOMEN??????
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Keep celebrating your your body.
It is great in this day and age that people are happy and content with themselves, but keep in mind us skinnies