I can't imagine actually dating for very long (once?) without realizing the person's 'true' gender. But as I inferred, how would one react to a self described single person who turned out to have a wife or husband and family? Why would you trust the person or continue a relationship?
But if you are playing with the possibility that a male gender individual could be fooled and be attracted to a made-up male, it could happen but is reason only for shunning, not stomping. "Fool me once..."
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