Signs she is into me (8)

Hey everyone,

So I've met this fantsatic lady.
I met her out and after a chat she was happy to give me her number.
So ill called her during the week and met up for coffee.
We had a laugh and everything went really well.
That was Tuesday.
Now Thursday what should my next move be?
I've text her and emailed her...seeing if she would like to catch up?
But no real response...no yes or no just avoiding the subject...

Hey Venice

Glad you met someone you really like.

I have to say though if you have already text and emailed her suggesting you both catch up again and she hasn't responded directly... there is something not quite right.

Who knows maybe she has an ex who is still hanging around, maybe she enjoyed your company but not attracted to you intimately. Nothing worse than feeling left dangling - I suggest you phone her, have a chat and ask her out suggesting a day - see how she reacts when you do so. You could always be upfront and say hey, if you aren't into me I would rather you say so, no hard feelings.

I met a guy the other day, nice guy, but just wasn't that WOW factor of attraction on my side. We had agreed prior to meeting to both be honest, as hard as that can be, as neither wanted to be left wondering if.... So when he suggested we meet up again - I looked him straight in the eyes and said you are a great guy but just not into you that way but am sure the right one will show up. I found it hard to do that but he appreciated my honesty.

I really hope this lady is into you Venice - as we all deserve someone special - but don't take it too personally if she isn't the way you would like her to be - is just the way it goes sometimes and the right lucky lady will show up.

Let us know how you get on!

Ok so she wants to catchup tomorrow for lunch...
Thanks for your replies guys much appreciated.
Any advice for the lunch tomorrow?
Also signs i should look out for if she is actually interested or not interested?
Or should I just be upfront and ask before the end of the date?

Babe don't orchestrate or plan too much just go with the flow. For her to say yes to lunch with you is a positive step - if she was not interested I really don't think she would go there, I know I wouldn't.

Just be yourself - you are a lovely guy - enjoy your time getting to know one another!

If you have doubts during the lunch that she is not really into you - to ease your mind - just be upfront and say hey can i ask a question and ask...if she is honest and sincere she will respond truthfully.

I wish you all the best and a perfect date!

well it sounds like things are going well so far, venice. If I have learned anything from women it's to make sure you listen as much as possible to them. After a while, they may think wow, what a great listener. look for body language, the hair flick's always a good sign and good eye contact helps. She's probably going to be asnervous as you are, so just be yourself when you;re talking about you. I've told the most ridiculously embarassing stories about myself and usually get a good response as it breaks the tension. other than that, i;ve been single a while so anymore advice and people are going to start asking why that is.

You are such a waste being single Newbie hehe