Sept 21st will be two years since I lost the absolute closest person to me.....he was killed in a motorbike accident...in many ways I cannot still to this day believe he is gone....and in many ways it is almost like a fleeting memory where at times I cannot remember his voice.....and I sometimes half wonder if he was ever really here....and then real memories flood in.....and the unconditional love that never ever fades......takes hold....and I am greatful for having had his presence in my life....and am so greatful for those who are present in my life today......
Wow, that's something not everyone can relate too. I know many that have lost people in their life from an accident. One of the coolest people I've ever known a guy named Marty Muscat. Musical genious, piano, guitar and at a very early age of 12 is when I remeber him playing. He was killed at age 16 by a drunk driver. I was just sown the raod when it happened, and went to see what the deal was, I seen him, white as a ghost, He didn't stand a chance. I named my oldest son after him.
I wanted to add something, it seems many people always remember the anniversery of a death. To me that's something I can't do. I remember the good times. the laughter, those memories are with me when ever I choose.I choose not yo remember days of dying, only the days those persons brought joy into the lives they've touched. Not easy for many I'm sure. Peace.
thank you everyone......very much appreciated....yes truly....he LOVED his Repsol...there is no other way he would have wanted fate to turn out......I guess the anniversary date just sticks out..as it was such a shocking thing to have happen...not sure why realy..but thanks all of you..I appreciate your words and thoughts more than you can possibly know
Do not stand at my grave and weep I am not there; I do not sleep. I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glints on snow, I am the sun on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain. When you awaken in the morning's hush I am the swift uplifting rush Of quiet birds in circled flight. I am the soft stars that shine at night. Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there; I did not die.
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