After my Mum and Dad were married, Dad started talking in his sleep so Mum decided to answer him back and she found out all about his ex-girlfriends. She thought it was quite funny and told Dad all about it the next morning. He said but remember I married you. That was 32 years ago and they are still together and Dad still talks in his sleep.
PeachesandCreamConcord, North Carolina USA675 posts
Interrogation 101 teaches...someone under the influence of sleep, with the subconscience completely at ease and spilling its guts...usually tells on themselves..I would only kill him...with a slow painful, amputated (get my drift Lorraine?) death if he could not convince me that the she that he was speaking of in his sleep was a sister, mother, aunt...but if he couldn't convince me..well we'd take a trip to the kitchen and start cutting up.....potatoes???
Mike42FilmmakerLos Angeles, California USA142 posts
Oh God, this is terrible! I hate this when it happens.
This is why it's so important to get a few years in between realtionships so you still don't have the other woman's name in your mind.
But even a few years won't change anything, some women stay in your head for decades!
It depends on how sophisticated the woman you are currently with is. She can we real smart about it and she'll play it for more information and leverage on your phsychology in very subtle ways in the next months. Not to hurt you but to increase her power and control over you, her knowledge of you is her security in the relationship, if she's smart.
There was one time when I called out another woman's name and woke up and she was just smiling, she would use that in the future alright. LOL.
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