If she says, "Tell me WHY?"...would you?? ( Archived) (29)

Hi

I complete respect what you are saying and how you think but still my right to give my opinion aswell and I disagree...Thats how you are and If you didnt want try to be with her thats fine!
I do believe life is too short and If you like someone Yes you should at least try to let them know how you feel ...You never know! I think If I like someone and hold that back becouse I think I am not good enough I will be commiting a huge crime against myself thinking like that...Yes I am good enough...If the person let me know they dont like me Thats fine at least I tried otherwise The "What if?" would hunt me forever!
This is just my opinion , I am not trying to make anyone accept It I am just sharing ...

i would hope that if I ever met someone they would have the integrity and matureness to tell me if they didn´t want to see me again.....

Sorry this happened to you jlb...

Indeed! I feel the same. The purpose of the threads are to share ideas not set dogma!!

I disagree completely. Men can have low self esteem as well, and I think that was what he

was suffering from. On the other hand, you are probably better off without him. Sounds like he had

some issues. I don't understand why women feel it necessary to talk about stuff instead of just

waiting and seeing what happens it always screws things up when you do that. He may have

been taken aback and needed some time to regather his thoughts. Anyway, a wish of luck to you,

there is a man out there waiting for you

Personally I never ask why cause after someone treats me like that...The whys don't really matter to me...I just know they won't get a second chance to treat me like that again!!!!!!!!!

..God, this was what happened to me and someone i met online.it may not be for real, but he just let me fall for him, and then the next thing i know, he doesnt want to talk to me anymore..he even erased me on his friend's list..and everytime i sign on to an Instant messaging, he then let himself appear offline..and you know what i did? i signed on to my other account..added him and talked to him..and before i actually decided to log out..i revealed to him that it was actually me..i told him, "i guess i really am not good at lying, well, to be honest, this is aubrey.all i wnated to know is, why are you avoiding me"..and he answered, "its because, im falling for you, but im afraid, im not ever gonna be able to meet you up in the future"..yeah, it was sweet..but hey, he doesnt hold my fate..nor does he own my heart..how could he say that, he is not the right one for me?..oh well, im over him..gotta move him and he is not worth any tear..

Aww

Go find him, sling em' to the ground and have your way with him. Be assertive.