Have you ever thought that the reason some of us cannot post pictures for all to see is due to the line of work we are in? You all say no pic no response... think of some possible lines of work where someone could not post pics for all to see!!!! Any comments????
CrystalChicaGoose Bay, Newfoundland Canada146 posts
I work in a line of work where I don't have my address/name listed with my phone number and I have a very "interesting" group of clients, but I still have my photo posted. They all know I'm single, and looking, everyone at work teases me, so I guess posting a photo depends on the person.
chance2485cabin in the woods, Michigan USA1,365 posts
Hi,
I have said repeatedly...There is always reasons for why people dont post pictures..I didn't at first.a conjuntion order helped...I was afraid of ex-husband....If someone gets interested in you you could send them one..Good luck I for one understand!
exactly people in lines of work such as law enforcement. Are you willing to write them off due to their line of work?? or take a chance and chat with them??
My camera is lacking batteries, as soon as their in I´m gona do 100 push-ups and 100 sit-ups, take a bare breast photo and get swamped by marriage proposals. I think? People are so fixated by apperence that they rather date a dumb beutyful person then someone who can put 2 and 2 together and I know I´m not dumb, because the answer is of course 3.
It is your choice on what you do. Don't let anyone guilt you into making you think you are doing something wrong. Posting a picture or not, that is a choice, a preference, not a question of right or wrong. It is what you decide what you want to do, for yourself, not for anybody else.
I don't post a picture, but will send someone one thru email, but I'm scared of the criticism, I've been told I was hansome plenty of times, but I'm not bigheaded and I'll go with my instinct, maybe once I get to know more people here?.....
Mach, one thing I've learned from experience is not to worry about looks.
I don't consider myself a great looking guy, and posted a pic more because people like to have a face they can associate with the 'person' they are talking too. (I know that I do anyways...) SOMEBODY SOMEWHERE will find you attractive, pretty much no matter what everyone else thinks anyways, since everyone has their own personal tastes. (try it, it works!)
As for not being able to post a picture, olaim, you could try being creative. I've seen boots, dogs, etc etc..... That might work just as well as an icebreaker as anything else.
How will you know who they realy are? Heard on the radio a couple of days ago about two people who had been flirting on the net for a long time. They decided to meet at a secluded beach and the girl where supposed to where a pnk top and short skirt. The only problem the guy had was that he met his mother on that beach waring a pink top and short skirt. No his dad has trown out the mothers computer.
Wow, that can't be good. Looks to me that before you meet anybody in person, you need to really get to know them more, maybe talk on the phone, or email, but looks to me they did'nt really know who they were talking to.
Sometimes you have to trust your instincts when it comes to people without pictures. I have gone for a few without pics posted and been burned once while the other two were beautiful women on the outside as well as inside. One was too busy working two jobs, the second so she could put a daughter thru college. The other I have been talking to for a week and so far I like but at this point only time will tell
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