I have just checked my emails, and I have had a message from the guy I am seeing.
He said that he just can't get my little outburst about him not coming to see me out of his head, and he feels it has blown the situation all together.
He went on to tell me that he is going to be really busy up until xmas, but after the new year...........
he just doesnt feel ready to see me again, at least not yet. But after new year he probably will.
try to not let it bring you down if you can. Youve always seemed like a very nice lady to me and couldnt imagine any sane fellow wanting to blow you off. Keep your chin up.
That was fast. Another secret is 'ceasing' communcation completely!
People go " keep your ex'es as close friends" Chances are, if you have/had strong feelings for them, you'll end up in their bed 'some day' when in the doldrums and they never decline such offers! Better to go quiet till you heal completely! I always hang up on my ex when he calls and i'm proud to say it's been almost 6 months and the longer i go without talking to him, the more i realise he really couldn't have meant that much!!! If you had kids with him then it would be different of course because you'd still have to communicate.
bajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados3,724 posts
<he just doesnt feel ready to see me again, at least not yet. But after new year he probably will.>
Guess he never got the concept of living in the moment!
Karen you don't need a gameplayer in your life, you are too valuable. Put his stuff in a box and put it outside. Geez, this stuff always gets pulled at holiday time.
PILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK4,804 posts
Good for you girl i would not of said do you want to pick up stuff i would i have said pick up your because its cramping my style and its going out. Anyway from what i see on the forums there are loads of men who would love to take his place, Go on girl get back out there have some fun.
sorry to hear you're hurting karen, you deserve so much better. don't go waiting around for something that may or may not happen, grab what IS happening and make sure it's right for YOU!
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He said that he just can't get my little outburst about him not coming to see me out of his head, and he feels it has blown the situation all together.
He went on to tell me that he is going to be really busy up until xmas, but after the new year...........
he just doesnt feel ready to see me again, at least not yet. But after new year he probably will.
Yep, that constitutes a dumping to me!
I am having a really bad day!