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Nov 28, 2007 4:02 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
I have just checked my emails, and I have had a message from the guy I am seeing.

He said that he just can't get my little outburst about him not coming to see me out of his head, and he feels it has blown the situation all together.

He went on to tell me that he is going to be really busy up until xmas, but after the new year...........

he just doesnt feel ready to see me again, at least not yet. But after new year he probably will.

frustrated Yep, that constitutes a dumping to me!

I am having a really bad day!
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Nov 28, 2007 4:15 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
grizz73
grizz73grizz73Tallahassee, Florida USA19 Threads 566 Posts
try to not let it bring you down if you can. Youve always seemed like a very nice lady to me and couldnt imagine any sane fellow wanting to blow you off. Keep your chin up.comfort hug comfort
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Nov 28, 2007 4:19 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
You know what Karen people really make me mad why don't they just say its all over instead of drivel like thatvery mad
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Nov 28, 2007 4:21 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
loopylove
loopyloveloopylovebristol, Bristol, England UK9 Threads 429 Posts
What a prat,, get back in there girl,,comfort
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Nov 28, 2007 4:34 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
What she said!! thumbs up

wave
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Nov 28, 2007 4:34 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
laugh

Thanks you two.
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Nov 28, 2007 4:36 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
ltlmstrouble
ltlmstroubleltlmstroubleMilton Keynes, Buckinghamshire, England UK7 Threads 1,635 Posts
Karen,
You are a strong, beautiful worth while woman...

Don't let a man put you down!

You are great and he needs to fight for you not toss you aside and give a half hearted promise to keep you on a string..

hug comfort hug
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Nov 28, 2007 4:37 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
Well, I replied and asked him if he wanted to pick up his stuff.

Not waiting around for him! No chance!!!!banana
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Nov 28, 2007 4:45 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
Sorry to hear that Karen.. I hope this helps..hug hug comfort
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Nov 28, 2007 4:52 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
lusciousmile
lusciousmilelusciousmileThere, Aland Islands Finland25 Threads 2 Polls 11,989 Posts
laugh


That was fast. Another secret is 'ceasing' communcation completely!

People go " keep your ex'es as close friends" blah
Chances are, if you have/had strong feelings for them, you'll end up in their bed 'some day' when in the doldrums and they never decline such offers! Better to go quiet till you heal completely! I always hang up on my ex when he calls and i'm proud to say it's been almost 6 months and the longer i go without talking to him, the more i realise he really couldn't have meant that much!!!
If you had kids with him then it would be different of course because you'd still have to communicate.


grin
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Nov 28, 2007 5:22 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
<he just doesnt feel ready to see me again, at least not yet. But after new year he probably will.>


Guess he never got the concept of living in the moment!

Karen you don't need a gameplayer in your life, you are too valuable. Put his stuff in a box and put it outside. Geez, this stuff always gets pulled at holiday time.

Start your day over...without an 'eejit' in it!

comfort comfort hug
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Nov 28, 2007 5:46 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
Sorry to hear that Karen !! hug
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Nov 28, 2007 6:49 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
kissmedeeply
kissmedeeplykissmedeeplyPetitcodiac, New Brunswick Canada70 Threads 15,139 Posts
Hang in there Karen sometimes men say things and means a whole different thinghug
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Nov 28, 2007 7:00 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
Fallingman
FallingmanFallingmanDublin, Ireland29 Threads 12 Polls 11,436 Posts
I don't agree......when men say "beer" they mean "beer"

rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 28, 2007 7:02 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
homersimpson
homersimpsonhomersimpsongranada, Andalusia Spain3 Threads 9 Posts
hEY gOVERNESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS !!!!!

hAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT MAYBEEE SEDUCING HIS BEST MATE ?

JUST A SUGGGGGGGGGGESHTION
XXXXX
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Nov 28, 2007 7:16 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
PILIPALA
PILIPALAPILIPALACardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK200 Threads 4,804 Posts
Good for you girl i would not of said do you want to pick up stuff i would i have said pick up your because its cramping my style and its going outdevil. Anyway from what i see on the forums there are loads of men who would love to take his place, Go on girl get back out there have some fun.
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Nov 28, 2007 7:18 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
Imaredneckwoman
ImaredneckwomanImaredneckwomanTroy, USA1,644 Posts
I'm sorry
Here is a hug hug
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Nov 28, 2007 7:21 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
Good call...Why let him call the shots!!!!!!!!!!roll eyes

When the new year comes...Make sure you are ready with a new man!!!!!!!


wink grin
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Nov 28, 2007 8:08 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
dougiew
dougiewdougiewaberdeen, UK52 Threads 629 Posts
sorry to hear you're hurting karen, you deserve so much better. don't go waiting around for something that may or may not happen, grab what IS happening and make sure it's right for YOU! kiss
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Nov 28, 2007 8:12 AM CST As if the day could get worse........
one good thing is that you're not going to waste more time with him...

hugs! hug hug hug
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