Why do some people end up in relationships that abusive..I know I have always managed to find the guys that are either mentally or physicaly abusive... I think it has a lot to do with how we look at ourselves...For me I have always had problems with self confidence..So there for I just accepted what was there... What is your opinion...
Often people develope comfort zones. To find someone that makes them feel outside the comfort zone,makes them reject that person. If a person feels in place or a fit in the zone, they will give that person a head start in their affections without ever knowing. It has a lot to do with the persons self esteem and how they see their lifestyle. They also look for mates in places that fit their comfort zone.
A person needs to decide what they want from life and do what is going to produce it. Most people never plan their life and work their plan. They just wonder how come.......
My question would be.... does anybody really pay attention to the way people conduct themselves here? There are a lot of great people here with good hearts.. that are just waiting to be discovered... all one has to do is look hard enough, and deep enough, or pay more attention to what's happening around them.... might spare most of us a lot of pain in the future...
JustMe0807: Why do some people end up in relationships that abusive..I know I have always managed to find the guys that are either mentally or physicaly abusive... I think it has a lot to do with how we look at ourselves...For me I have always had problems with self confidence..So there for I just accepted what was there... What is your opinion...
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I think it has a lot to do with how we look at ourselves...For me I have always had problems with self confidence..So there for I just accepted what was there...
What is your opinion...