Why do we choose the partners we do ( Archived) (6)

Dec 9, 2007 7:41 AM CST Why do we choose the partners we do
JustMe0807
JustMe0807JustMe0807Marshall, Missouri USA34 Threads 558 Posts
Why do some people end up in relationships that abusive..I know I have always managed to find the guys that are either mentally or physicaly abusive...
I think it has a lot to do with how we look at ourselves...For me I have always had problems with self confidence..So there for I just accepted what was there...
What is your opinion...
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Dec 9, 2007 7:48 AM CST Why do we choose the partners we do
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
love and/or lust is blind
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Dec 9, 2007 7:51 AM CST Why do we choose the partners we do
RillyNiceGuy
RillyNiceGuyRillyNiceGuySoutheast, Arkansas USA839 Threads 13,003 Posts
Often people develope comfort zones. To find someone that makes them feel outside the comfort zone,makes them reject that person. If a person feels in place or a fit in the zone, they will give that person a head start in their affections without ever knowing. It has a lot to do with the persons self esteem and how they see their lifestyle. They also look for mates in places that fit their comfort zone.

A person needs to decide what they want from life and do what is going to produce it. Most people never plan their life and work their plan. They just wonder how come.......grin
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Dec 9, 2007 7:54 AM CST Why do we choose the partners we do
Daniel4021
Daniel4021Daniel4021Somewhere, Tennessee USA157 Threads 8,986 Posts
My question would be.... does anybody really pay attention to the way people conduct themselves here? There are a lot of great people here with good hearts.. that are just waiting to be discovered... all one has to do is look hard enough, and deep enough, or pay more attention to what's happening around them.... might spare most of us a lot of pain in the future...
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Dec 9, 2007 7:56 AM CST Why do we choose the partners we do
JustMe0807
JustMe0807JustMe0807Marshall, Missouri USA34 Threads 558 Posts
thank you for your input..I have to agree...
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Jul 8, 2008 5:54 PM CST Why do we choose the partners we do
alex_192
alex_192alex_192sarasota, USA38 Threads 1,271 Posts
JustMe0807: Why do some people end up in relationships that abusive..I know I have always managed to find the guys that are either mentally or physicaly abusive...
I think it has a lot to do with how we look at ourselves...For me I have always had problems with self confidence..So there for I just accepted what was there...
What is your opinion...


when lust and hormones rule those things happens
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