What if I appear to be a catch but, in reality..... (6)
StartingOverAt45Lexington, Kentucky USA1 Threads 6 PostsWhat if I appear to be a catch but, in reality, I'm a wreck and need to be saved???? I have my suspicion that the real "wrecks", be they male or female, will generate much more interest than the ones who appear to be the epitome of stability. True?
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The ones that are a wreck in reality aren't able to hide it for long when you talk with them... their neediness and instability become apparent soon enough! If they generate more interest, it's hopefully from others of the same type.
Some people like nothing more that to "save" someone. I've never understood why, but I equate it to the same thing as people always wanting to "change" the other person! Instead of seeing what they like in the other person, they see what they think needs changed or saved and then try to do that. Maybe it's something they need to do in order to feel good about themselves or to feel needed by the other person? I have no idea but do my best to avoid someone like that.
Not only do I not want them to save or change me... I don't want to be trying to do that to them either. It says that you aren't what they want or but they think you can be "good enough" for them "IF"... and then there is always one more "IF"...
Some people like nothing more that to "save" someone. I've never understood why, but I equate it to the same thing as people always wanting to "change" the other person! Instead of seeing what they like in the other person, they see what they think needs changed or saved and then try to do that. Maybe it's something they need to do in order to feel good about themselves or to feel needed by the other person? I have no idea but do my best to avoid someone like that.
Not only do I not want them to save or change me... I don't want to be trying to do that to them either. It says that you aren't what they want or but they think you can be "good enough" for them "IF"... and then there is always one more "IF"...
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Jackie54, I could not have said that better myself, I agree!!!
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Most people, be they male or female, after surviving a few years in the real world, have already found a Savior. Some think they are one. Those who think they are one, think everyone, be they male or female, needs them. Much to the detriment of those who do not. For heaven's sake...this is rambling, isn't it?
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The nutcases give themself away very soon like jackie said.I dont want to save anyone and i already have kids so the wrecks can go to the junkyard.
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