I am guilty of changing after I became married. drastically in the last 3 years of it. Some say you should not blame someone else for our faults or shortcomings....Sorry I cannot do that for everything. I think because of what happened and how I was treated effects my thought process and appearance to others. I find that I must remind myself daily that what was, when I was married is no longer. I guess I am wondering what changes other have had from relationships. There wherer good changs that occured i'll admit, but the bad ones seems to stay with us longer.
Actually ... you were gonna change if you were married or not. We all do. some for better some worse . I'm sure the spouse changed too... Some get bitter others become better . I only hope you are stronger and wiser from the relationship.
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