Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"? ( Archived) (8)

Apr 9, 2006 7:38 PM CST Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"?
nitanell
nitanellnitanellLos Angeles, California USA2 Threads 35 Posts
I am new at this and I finally (after a week) responded to several CS members profiles...I got 2 rejections straight off with the response "I've already found someone else and I am trying to make that work"...That sorta sounds lame (they are still on the CS website...what's up with that?)
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Apr 9, 2006 7:44 PM CST Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"?
prettywoman01
prettywoman01prettywoman01sharon grove, Kentucky USA21 Threads 8 Polls 442 Posts
some people lilke to stay because of the forums and their friends...

some may say things to let you know they aren't interested and maybe don't want to hurt your feelings...

i had exchanged phone numbers with a guy on here and he told me that he had recieved responses from people and told them he was already involoved with someone because he actually didn't want to hurt anyone's feelings i guess and didn't want to be a player...who knows?????

the best thing i can think of is just to take things with a grain of salt and talk to the people you like and is friendly to you and don't bother about the rest...
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Apr 9, 2006 8:44 PM CST Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"?
RainbowSlider
RainbowSliderRainbowSliderYellville, USA171 Threads 7,174 Posts
There are some great friendships here. You can get so close when you try the honest approach. It is good to be there for others like they have been for you. When you become a friend it works both ways. :)
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Apr 10, 2006 8:24 PM CST Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"?
nitanell
nitanellnitanellLos Angeles, California USA2 Threads 35 Posts
thanks...RainbowSlider, That's what I want...to foster new friends. I move in the same ole circles and I'm looking for something else.
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Apr 10, 2006 8:26 PM CST Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"?
nitanell
nitanellnitanellLos Angeles, California USA2 Threads 35 Posts
Prettywoman1, I sorta figured that...but since it felt so "canned" I felt sorta yulky. Yes you are absolutely right, to take all of this with a grain of salt...WE ARE ON THE INTERNET FOR HEAVENS SAKE...Good look to you in your search...thanks
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Apr 10, 2006 9:05 PM CST Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"?
Raynew
RaynewRaynewConcord, North Carolina USA99 Threads 2,400 Posts
In my profile I do say I am getting to know someone exclusively. By doing this I am letting others know that I don't want to "play the field" and it allows me to continue posting to the forums due to the friends I have made here without having to hide my profile.
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May 5, 2006 10:51 AM CST Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"?
don't know is it?
thats mean. just tell them they are not your type.
big meanies, wheres my gun? what was their names again?
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May 5, 2006 10:54 AM CST Is the common CS rejection response "I've already found someone and I am trhing to make it work"?
Tat2mania
Tat2maniaTat2maniaLong Beach, California USA26 Threads 169 Posts
You probably just had an aweful coincedence...although if they dont list it in there profiles that they are with someone, that is wrong..ppl on here..opther than who you see in the forums can be pretty selfish and heartless!
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