What is it with men!!!! (7)

Feb 24, 2008 3:58 AM CST What is it with men!!!!
Justluvflowers
JustluvflowersJustluvflowersPort Macquarie, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 106 Posts
Ok, I had a date today. Great, terrific. I thought it went smoothly enough. Hmmm, obviously not. So, I was talking to my girlfriend tonight who is on the same datng site & no its not CS, and she told me that she got a message thru, asking her if she wanted to hook up. confused
Ok, I know I don't have a perfect figure, or am the best looking woman either, but, I don't think I am ugly either. So, what is it with men, can't they just say thanks but no thanks or is he just weighing his options perhaps & seeing who is nicer.
Maybe one day I'll meet a guy that will take me for who I am.

Sorry, I know its not really a forum issue, just need to vent & maybe get some perspective from others.dunno confused
Feb 24, 2008 3:59 AM CST What is it with men!!!!
Justluvflowers
JustluvflowersJustluvflowersPort Macquarie, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 106 Posts
Whoops. And yes, it was from the same guy I had a date with and he contacted her after said date with mesigh
Feb 24, 2008 4:03 AM CST What is it with men!!!!
kizzy27
kizzy27kizzy27a south coast beach, New South Wales Australia106 Threads 6 Polls 7,413 Posts
Hey Kaz , dont take it personally obviously a snake & sweets better off without him Hey his loss babe xx oh im online if ya wanna chat .
Kizzy
Feb 24, 2008 4:57 AM CST What is it with men!!!!
kare65
kare65kare65brisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 225 Posts
Hey Karen
Some of them don't have the guts to say thanks, but no thanks. I wouldn't try and figure that out, he could be married, player or anything. But one thing for sure his loss.....................



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Feb 24, 2008 5:35 AM CST What is it with men!!!!
Justluvflowers
JustluvflowersJustluvflowersPort Macquarie, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 106 Posts
Hmm, fair point Bourbs. And absolutely there is no exclusivity or committment, but to when you spend a few hours with someone & they say they will call you again in a few days, that's ok I can deal with that, & I can understand he is window shopping, as we all do. Just was a bit surprised that he contacted my friend after our outing, when he said he would like to see me again. Hey, its no skin off my nose. I just prefer it if a guy not interested, don't say they will call me, that's all, hey its his choice, I'm not waiting by the phone for him to call & yeah I am seeing other guys. It just makes me wonder that's all.

So, I'm chilled, its all good, I guess us women & men will never be able to work out each other. lol.

cool
Feb 24, 2008 5:37 AM CST What is it with men!!!!
Justluvflowers
JustluvflowersJustluvflowersPort Macquarie, New South Wales Australia6 Threads 106 Posts
Thanks Kare65.

Yeah just common courtesy, that's all I ask. I know he wasn't married & he didn't seem to be a player or anything.
Its all good, oh well

NEXT............laugh & yep his lossgrin
Mar 2, 2008 6:42 AM CST What is it with men!!!!
relaxin
relaxinrelaxinsomewhere, Queensland Australia33 Threads 3 Polls 1,371 Posts
Justluvflowers: Thanks Kare65.

Yeah just common courtesy, that's all I ask. I know he wasn't married & he didn't seem to be a player or anything.
Its all good, oh well

NEXT............ & yep his loss


Hi

my brother did that to a chick once and he said "he didnt have paper and pen at the time " asked the lady to drop her number off to me at work and she came back to see if i had given it to him ..... doh stupid me didnt realise that he wasnt going to call her until the 2nd visit..... very mad did i let him have it #$@^%$# ! (he's never done it again- that i am aware off)

why cant they just say thank you very much and goodbye

was he desperate? those actions actually scream desperation to me

maybe you 2 tea it up and play his game for a little while haha

and way have fun

cheers
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