50$$ = Death Threats?......WTF!!!! (59)
hey hun.. first sry ur going through this ..
second you do what you have to do , to protect ur child and urself.. even if you have to hide out for a while.. find a friend or relative u can stay with so ur not alone.. change ur number.. and stay safe i'm praying for you
second you do what you have to do , to protect ur child and urself.. even if you have to hide out for a while.. find a friend or relative u can stay with so ur not alone.. change ur number.. and stay safe i'm praying for you
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I have goosebumps from head to toe reading this K.
Don't underestimate him and don't put much faith in the 5.0.
If you are really afraid and he's not behind bars, with no bail or dead, do what you have to do to watch your back.
Dix
Don't underestimate him and don't put much faith in the 5.0.
If you are really afraid and he's not behind bars, with no bail or dead, do what you have to do to watch your back.
Dix
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why do they have to wait till monday
they can run him threw dmv put out an apb
and get his ss number from dmy and run it threw and check bank and utility records for a current address
and if he owns his house as it appears in your post he should be on the proberty tax files
and why don't you know where he lives
keep your friends close and enemies closer
they can run him threw dmv put out an apb
and get his ss number from dmy and run it threw and check bank and utility records for a current address
and if he owns his house as it appears in your post he should be on the proberty tax files
and why don't you know where he lives
keep your friends close and enemies closer
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I would suggest that you gather up your paperwork (protection orders) and your family and go someplace safe until Monday. Or park yourself at the police station with the paperwork in hand (and family). You have a history here - 3 current orders - please don't take any chances...
Stay safe and keep us posted when you get the chance.
Stay safe and keep us posted when you get the chance.
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He has no drivers license...he lost it from DWI's.
He doesnt own a home.
I dont know where he works.
I dont know why they have to wait until Monday, thats just what I was told.
I dont know where he lives ...except for the city name.
I havent heard from him in over a year and then out of the blue....here he goes again!
He doesnt own a home.
I dont know where he works.
I dont know why they have to wait until Monday, thats just what I was told.
I dont know where he lives ...except for the city name.
I havent heard from him in over a year and then out of the blue....here he goes again!
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Im leaving....going to a friends house that he (hopefully) doesnt know.
Thanks for the support.
Thanks for the support.
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sweety,
Take him very serious,I spent two days in a bus
station in hopes he would find me..he did and in front
of our children.beat me so bad no one know me to look at me.
31 days recovering..and to this day my kids mention it
from time to time...threats real or not...do it for
yourself and children...be safe,rather than sorry...
I'll pray for your safety sweety,,,go somewhere in public
in a group..till Monday.....chance....
Take him very serious,I spent two days in a bus
station in hopes he would find me..he did and in front
of our children.beat me so bad no one know me to look at me.
31 days recovering..and to this day my kids mention it
from time to time...threats real or not...do it for
yourself and children...be safe,rather than sorry...
I'll pray for your safety sweety,,,go somewhere in public
in a group..till Monday.....chance....
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well hope it works out for you my dear
sounds a bit dangerous
hope you are recording your phone calls from him
if it was long distance they should be able to get the number from the phone comapny not sure if they can if it is local
unless you have caller id
could use star 69 if no other incoming calls since his to get number
just a couple thoughts
sounds a bit dangerous
hope you are recording your phone calls from him
if it was long distance they should be able to get the number from the phone comapny not sure if they can if it is local
unless you have caller id
could use star 69 if no other incoming calls since his to get number
just a couple thoughts
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Do you have somewhere you can go?
Failing that, do you have someone who can stay with you?
The bigger and hairier, the better (vice are often big and hairy).
Keep a journal by the phone, if you can't record the calls. Note the time and date and content. If something further goes to court - records can be retrieved by the police service from the phone company. Proof he's called you.
If I can think of anything else, I'll post it - message me if you wish - we'll talk further.
Failing that, do you have someone who can stay with you?
The bigger and hairier, the better (vice are often big and hairy).
Keep a journal by the phone, if you can't record the calls. Note the time and date and content. If something further goes to court - records can be retrieved by the police service from the phone company. Proof he's called you.
If I can think of anything else, I'll post it - message me if you wish - we'll talk further.
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This might be the wimpy route to go, but I took the wimpy route. Screw the money, screw him, leave it alone. I'm sure you'd pay $50 for some peace of mind right now. $50 will barely feed a kid for a week.
I know you deserve any nickel out of him, but at some point, a comfortable life has GOT to come first.
In the meantime...all the above. I hope you phoned the police after the threat was made. Although I'm with Dix, don't count on them.
If you're antigun, at least have some mace stashed in several places.
Let surrounding neighbors vaguely know the situation so they can watch out for you.
AND by all means, plan for the worst as stupid as it sounds. Is there a back door to bail out of should he show up. Pound the hell outta the walls if you're in an apartment. Stay off the phone and radio low while you're driving, pay attention to who's driving beside you. Don't even go Krogering alone.
Been in your place, I feel for you, just be vigilant.
I know you deserve any nickel out of him, but at some point, a comfortable life has GOT to come first.
In the meantime...all the above. I hope you phoned the police after the threat was made. Although I'm with Dix, don't count on them.
If you're antigun, at least have some mace stashed in several places.
Let surrounding neighbors vaguely know the situation so they can watch out for you.
AND by all means, plan for the worst as stupid as it sounds. Is there a back door to bail out of should he show up. Pound the hell outta the walls if you're in an apartment. Stay off the phone and radio low while you're driving, pay attention to who's driving beside you. Don't even go Krogering alone.
Been in your place, I feel for you, just be vigilant.
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Just reread that you did file a report.
If they want to wait til Monday for any action, you CAN request police patrol where ever you're at, and they will.
If they want to wait til Monday for any action, you CAN request police patrol where ever you're at, and they will.
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I went through this with my ex..."beter sleep with one eye open..." There were at least 14 messeges....
Did you save them? Hope so.
Make another report...
Last summer when we stalked, I went to women's crisis. I filed al appropriate papers..
He had no adress,or phone...jusy the way he liked it. That way he could do whatever he wished and couldn't be served...
However, go to a womens crisis...report again.. There has to be some trace. Until then, if you have a dead bolt...and extra locks, use them! keep a phone near you, tell neighbors...anyone that might be there for you.
Keep those messeges! You will need them.
Thhoughts to you...
be safe
Did you save them? Hope so.
Make another report...
Last summer when we stalked, I went to women's crisis. I filed al appropriate papers..
He had no adress,or phone...jusy the way he liked it. That way he could do whatever he wished and couldn't be served...
However, go to a womens crisis...report again.. There has to be some trace. Until then, if you have a dead bolt...and extra locks, use them! keep a phone near you, tell neighbors...anyone that might be there for you.
Keep those messeges! You will need them.
Thhoughts to you...
be safe
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Another little known tidbit, if you rent and do not have a deadbolt lock, the landlord is required by law to install one upon request.
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i have never been through this but my prayers are with you and yours hun
only let those who "HAVE" to know where you are know go to police as much as needed and if they do nothing talk to super. and keep on them about this hun
only let those who "HAVE" to know where you are know go to police as much as needed and if they do nothing talk to super. and keep on them about this hun
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Geez, I'll be back here all day remembering stuff.
STOP using your address of residency on ANYthing. Even court documents and service papers. It's not required. You can use your parents or friend's addy, or get a POBox for $30 a year.
In Ohio, a noncustodial parent has to file through the courts to get the address of residency of their own children.
STOP using your address of residency on ANYthing. Even court documents and service papers. It's not required. You can use your parents or friend's addy, or get a POBox for $30 a year.
In Ohio, a noncustodial parent has to file through the courts to get the address of residency of their own children.
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My landlord didn't do it... was too late...
the crisis center should have a lock package... just be sure to give the landlord the heads up
there were alot of tenency laws that he took advantage of, I didn't know at the time.
If the landlord will do it, then another option, btu time is a factor... my landlord didn't return my call for two weeks...
the crisis center should have a lock package... just be sure to give the landlord the heads up
there were alot of tenency laws that he took advantage of, I didn't know at the time.
If the landlord will do it, then another option, btu time is a factor... my landlord didn't return my call for two weeks...
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Thank you all for your ideas and support. Since there is ahistory of violence with him, I already had deadbolts installed on my doors when I move to the house I am in now. I have told my neighbors vaugly about the situation and the cops are patrolling my home from what I understand(Im not there right now). He called again last night before I could leave and like an idiot I just grabbed the phone..thinking it was my friend whos home I was on the way too. He once again threatened my life. I once again phone the police.
I have been told that once he is arested that I will be notified immeditally.
My children are safe. Im a wreck...but thanks again for all your support.
I have been told that once he is arested that I will be notified immeditally.
My children are safe. Im a wreck...but thanks again for all your support.
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This evening I recieved a phone call. When I answered... my ex was on the other end...he said this to me...
You f-----g B---h!
You are going to make me loose my f-----g house!
You are going to make me loose my f-----g job!
You f-----g b---h!
Im going to hunt you down and f-----g kill you , you stupid B---H!
and then he hung up.
The scariest part Id that I have 3 current orders of protection against him and he has a very violent past with me. I called the police and made a report but the thing is is that they have to wait until Monday in order to find out his address from the family courts! He is being charged with a class E felony when they find him. Im feaking out and Im not sure what to do at this point...do I pack up my home and once again move? Im getting my phone # changed for the 4th time! I dont have any clue how he keeps getting it...it unlisted and not in my name!
What should I do? Has anyone out there been through anything similar?