Don't feel like you've done anything wrong. You stood up to him - there's nothing wrong with that.
He's their family - they will stand by him. But if that's how they feel toward you - you're better off without them too.
Do what you need to in order to stay safe. It's unfortunate that it may mean relocating again - but wouldn't that be worth a good night's sleep?
Ask a lot of questions (I'm sure you are) and find out what will happen to him - all the 'what if's'. Where will he end up? Will you walk down the street and run into him, or a member of his family?
I think this is a wonderful idea. One less thing for a family member to have to think about at an upsetting time. Comfort can be taken that things are done the way the person wished them to be and arrangments can be made so that it basically takes a phone call to get things happening. I know of one person who even made arrangments for Tim Horton coffee to be served after his service (he was a regular there) - it was very personalized and I found that it wasn't so much gloom, dispair and misery because his influence was most definately there.
I've donated to science and my family knows my wishes.
Don't personally see the harm in chatting with someone. But I think this is a personal choice. I also feel that whatever I'm doing - he would still have every right to do the same, until you both agree to change your arrangement (whatever that may be).
I have no secrets. Still I think you have to be comfortable with what or how much you share with someone while getting to know them. Not worried about stuff becoming public knowledge - look at some of the postings people do here - on the internet...
I think that's a personal call - where you draw the line.
I'd move on. I figure he's likely used to women falling all over him and my interest doesn't matter. Eventhough I may be attracted to him, I'd back away. If he's interested in me, he's got to let me know.
Glad you are okay. But until you hear 'for sure' that he's going to be in prison for a very long time - please be careful. Personally, I have faith in the police services but not so much in the Justice system (while acknowledging that I live in a different country than you) - will they let you know if he is released from custody - for any reason?
I miss being held. A hug (for no reason other than they thought you might need one). Cuddling up on the couch and watching a good movie together or just talking.
You want honesty in a relationship then you have to be prepared for questions. If I ask and you don't answer or won't answer - that would only raise more questions.
didn't think I had a greenthumb until I got this place.
Had a seed mixture here one year that started to grow this massive thing in my front yard - neighbors were coming over to look at it - couldn't figure out what it was - until it flowered. It was a big sunflower. Have not had one since.
I take my chances with the garden too, but it sure is nice when critters are enjoying it and I can too.
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RE: 50$$ = Death Threats?......WTF!!!!
Don't feel like you've done anything wrong. You stood up to him - there's nothing wrong with that.He's their family - they will stand by him. But if that's how they feel toward you - you're better off without them too.
Do what you need to in order to stay safe. It's unfortunate that it may mean relocating again - but wouldn't that be worth a good night's sleep?
Ask a lot of questions (I'm sure you are) and find out what will happen to him - all the 'what if's'. Where will he end up? Will you walk down the street and run into him, or a member of his family?
Stay safe.
Jan