I wouldn't say that I love raking leaves, but I do really enjoy the time outside. Oh, and they do need to be raked.
My favorite part is working on the garden, picking out what to plant at the greenhouse and planting it. I get smelly flowers (nicotiana is my favorite - flowering tobacco - you can smell them in the early evening) for me and butterfly/hummingbird type flowers for them, some herbs (again for me), so I can sit on my porch and enjoy them. Self indulgence.....
Where are all the guys? There have been some posting, do they not get bored? Do we get bored faster than they do? Are they out having a wild Saturday and we are here? Do they want someone to snuggle up with too? Or is it just us? Any thoughts?
My past is a part of who I am. I had to go through that to get to here and now. Hearing about some of it may help someone understand me a little better, I don't think names, dates, etc. are needed. Lessons, hopefully have been learned, and people are in my past for a reason.
The same works for me with him. I would want to know some things about his past - but not details, don't need them.
For the right person, my relocating is not out of the question. Or he could move here.
Not sure I would be willing to leave Canada though (except for a holiday). I'd really have to think about that - although the United States is not that far away. Have not really considered any other places. No particular reason, just always figured I would live in Canada.
Failing that, do you have someone who can stay with you? The bigger and hairier, the better (vice are often big and hairy).
Keep a journal by the phone, if you can't record the calls. Note the time and date and content. If something further goes to court - records can be retrieved by the police service from the phone company. Proof he's called you.
If I can think of anything else, I'll post it - message me if you wish - we'll talk further.
I would suggest that you gather up your paperwork (protection orders) and your family and go someplace safe until Monday. Or park yourself at the police station with the paperwork in hand (and family). You have a history here - 3 current orders - please don't take any chances...
Stay safe and keep us posted when you get the chance.
Sometimes, I think they describe what they 'think' they want.
They don't really 'know' what they want - until they find it - when they realise what they thought they wanted in fact wasn't what they wanted at all....
Some - not all.
That is our challenge - to either find someone who really 'knows' what he wants, which is a woman of 'quality'. Or someone who is open to options.
Definately inner beauty - a guy can look like he should dance for Chippendales but have the personality of a geranium (nothing against geraniums). He's not the one for me.
I learned a lesson a long time ago. A friend was dating a guy who I thought was nice but not particularly good looking. He treated everybody very well, was in fact a sweetheart and probably the best thing that ever happened to her. Funny thing, the more I got to know him, the better looking he got. His inner beauty was shining through, big time!
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RE: I am sooo bored :o(
I wouldn't say that I love raking leaves, but I do really enjoy the time outside. Oh, and they do need to be raked.My favorite part is working on the garden, picking out what to plant at the greenhouse and planting it. I get smelly flowers (nicotiana is my favorite - flowering tobacco - you can smell them in the early evening) for me and butterfly/hummingbird type flowers for them, some herbs (again for me), so I can sit on my porch and enjoy them. Self indulgence.....