My wife and are separated ( Archived) (28)

Apr 14, 2006 9:38 PM CST My wife and are separated
But we are now talking again, I have been up here less this week because of this and if we do get back together, I will leave here, but to all my friends, I will miss the conversations and the support we have given each other. I am confused real bad and do not know what to do, the grass is looking greener, but for how long...........any advice at all, I'm listening.?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:42 PM CST My wife and are separated
I will leave, but I will not forget the friendships I've made, thanks you guys and you know who you are. I'm not 100% sure, but I don't know what I'm going to do just yet.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:42 PM CST My wife and are separated
TexasTornado
TexasTornadoTexasTornadofairfield, USA22 Threads 2,701 Posts
best wishes paul
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:43 PM CST My wife and are separated
thanks.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:43 PM CST My wife and are separated
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
Paul,

Nobody can tell you what is right or wrong for you. This is your choice and hers alone. Please just make sure you choose out of love, not out of guilt, not for the kids, not because of what others think or say. Your heart knows hon.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:45 PM CST My wife and are separated
dixrog
dixrogdixrogNorton, Virginia USA54 Threads 1,974 Posts
What ever road you choose, I hope you have a safe and wonderful journey.

;)
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:47 PM CST My wife and are separated
adj4u
adj4uadj4unorth central, USA4,943 Posts
i would suggest give your choice your all but don't let it all be taken

and as for here maybe just retire don't delete nothin just put it away incase you need it

in otherwords just hide your profile don't delete it

good luck in what ever you decide
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:47 PM CST My wife and are separated
Thanks guys, it is hard to decide but at the sametime it is so easy to choose, didn't expect this but wasn't looking either, confusion.........gotta love it.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:48 PM CST My wife and are separated
Ocee35
Ocee35Ocee35Jackson, Michigan USA69 Threads 2 Polls 3,852 Posts
Mach

It's a question only you can know the answer too.


Best of luck which ever way you decide.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:49 PM CST My wife and are separated
You guys are real special and I hope the same for you all, any one else here been in this situation or is facing it too?
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:52 PM CST My wife and are separated
Justadreamerhere
JustadreamerhereJustadreamerhere39 Threads 3,444 Posts
I did, and I went back...again and again...and it never changed. But that's him and that's me...what is right for you? Only you can know that. You know I wish you all the best either way. You shall always have a friend here.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:53 PM CST My wife and are separated
Meilandra
MeilandraMeilandraEden Prairie, Minnesota USA25 Threads 1,186 Posts
People always told me I would know when the time was right to get a divorce, and I did, both times... amazingly enough.

So if you're not really feeling "done", I'd assume you're NOT done.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 9:55 PM CST My wife and are separated
dixrog
dixrogdixrogNorton, Virginia USA54 Threads 1,974 Posts
Paul,

I went back, and it was the greatest gift I could have asked for, but like Kris said.... it's in your heart to decide, and like DJ said, as far as CS goes, don't burn your bridges just yet.

;)
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 10:00 PM CST My wife and are separated
I won't burn them, so that is why I am sharing because I don't wanna hide nothing, but I'm not saying goodbye until I make my decision and if it to stay alone, well, I'll be kicking it with ya'll until you get tired of me or I get locked out.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 10:01 PM CST My wife and are separated
nwnstar
nwnstarnwnstarConway, USA38 Threads 5,464 Posts
um....

windy's all hooked up and stuff...

and she still says hi.

just sayin'
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 14, 2006 10:03 PM CST My wife and are separated
Well, my ex is'nt quiet happy about me being here, she has no right to an opinion, but if we were back together, it would cause a problem, but I would wanna stay in touch.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 15, 2006 8:00 AM CST My wife and are separated
Thanks alot guys for your sharing and input, means alot, I'll keep you all posted on the situation, Paul
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 15, 2006 8:02 AM CST My wife and are separated
cajunfroggy
cajunfroggycajunfroggyWaco, USA145 Threads 7,332 Posts
Hey Paul do whatever you feel you should take you time and best wishes hun
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 15, 2006 8:05 AM CST My wife and are separated
TabooN
TabooNTabooNClaremont, USA47 Threads 12,843 Posts
Make your choices wiht clear head, and heart...not easy, this.
Stand aside yourself a moment or more, and try to look in as an observer with inside knowledge...

Ultimately, as said, it's your decision, and be safe, and luck to you, hon.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Apr 15, 2006 8:06 AM CST My wife and are separated
Thanks Cajun, meant alot.
------ This thread is Archived ------
Post Comment - Post a comment on this Forum Thread

This Thread is Archived

This Thread is archived, so you will no longer be able to post to it. Threads get archived automatically when they are older than 3 months.

« Go back to All Threads
Message #318

Stats for this Thread

1,716 Views
27 Comments
by mach25 (196 Threads)
Created: Apr 2006
Last Viewed: Apr 7
Last Commented: May 2006

Share this Thread

We use cookies to ensure that you have the best experience possible on our website. Read Our Privacy Policy Here