Divorce (17)

Mar 12, 2008 2:44 PM CST Divorce
rescuemepleez
rescuemepleezrescuemepleezclydebank, Strathclyde, Scotland UK9 Threads 459 Posts
I came home from work tonight to a letter telling me that i was divorced on the 10th of march.....it feels weird..who thinks i should PARTY this weekend.yay
Mar 12, 2008 2:50 PM CST Divorce
chriss
chrisschrissst.helens, Merseyside, England UK79 Threads 15 Polls 4,472 Posts
its bound to feel strange but i also reckon deep down its goin to still sting you a little bit becouse now its been finalised that you are devorced, im going through a devorce and i reckon i might feel the same,,

but if ya truly happy then by all meens you should party:)hug
rescuemepleez: I came home from work tonight to a letter telling me that i was divorced on the 10th of march.....it feels weird..who thinks i should PARTY this weekend.
Mar 12, 2008 3:25 PM CST Divorce
xxLilyxx
xxLilyxxxxLilyxxHampshire, England UK36 Threads 3,678 Posts
rescuemepleez: I came home from work tonight to a letter telling me that i was divorced on the 10th of march.....it feels weird..who thinks i should PARTY this weekend.


We're going through the same thing with my parents at the moment. 42 years of marriage and one of them decides its not what they want anymore roll eyes

I hope it all goes through as painless as possible for you. You celebrate, if thats what you feel like doing drinking cheering dancing hug kiss
Mar 12, 2008 3:27 PM CST Divorce
DianeGeordie
DianeGeordieDianeGeordieYorkshire, North Yorkshire, England UK5 Posts
I've to wait about another 10 months for mine :/ unless that is, he decides to marry the new one in his life...
Mar 12, 2008 3:40 PM CST Divorce
rescuemepleez
rescuemepleezrescuemepleezclydebank, Strathclyde, Scotland UK9 Threads 459 Posts
Hey chriss,ive been on my own now 6yrs and yea its strange...i dont think i will be doing a divorce party but i will be celebrating my birthday this Fri night...its funny when i read divorce letter i felt like nobody's child.crying
Mar 12, 2008 3:46 PM CST Divorce
rescuemepleez
rescuemepleezrescuemepleezclydebank, Strathclyde, Scotland UK9 Threads 459 Posts
Hey xxlilyxx,if only we had a crystal ball eh!!!we have stayed good friends so all was amicable..divorce is always sad,be supportive to you're parents..i bet you will..thanks.R.
Mar 12, 2008 3:47 PM CST Divorce
sandsea
sandseasandseaManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK2 Posts
Hi rescuemepleez

Go Girl Party on ('cheering'); been divorced 10 years haven't looked back since! Take every day at a time and keep 'laugh');

Good Luck
Sharon
Mar 12, 2008 3:47 PM CST Divorce
rescuemepleez
rescuemepleezrescuemepleezclydebank, Strathclyde, Scotland UK9 Threads 459 Posts
Hey DianeGeordie,i hope things go well for you.R.
Mar 12, 2008 3:50 PM CST Divorce
rescuemepleez
rescuemepleezrescuemepleezclydebank, Strathclyde, Scotland UK9 Threads 459 Posts
Hey Sharon,thanks for that,im going to work on coming out of my shell....im growing and glowing.R.
Mar 12, 2008 3:59 PM CST Divorce
chriss
chrisschrissst.helens, Merseyside, England UK79 Threads 15 Polls 4,472 Posts
awwwwwwwwwwwwwhug hug wel hun i know this is only a forum but if you ever fel down, jump on and wel try and cher you up:)hug
rescuemepleez: Hey chriss,ive been on my own now 6yrs and yea its strange...i dont think i will be doing a divorce party but i will be celebrating my birthday this Fri night...its funny when i read divorce letter i felt like nobody's child.
Mar 13, 2008 4:30 AM CST Divorce
vodkababepls
vodkababeplsvodkababeplsnottinghamshire, Nottinghamshire, England UK58 Posts
im going threw a divorce myself should be here anytime, i think i will be gutted when it does come, but not to sure, we have been apart for nearly 5 yrs. he was the love of my life and every thing i wanted in a man, i was his princess and spoilt me rotten, but he couldnt keep his pants up and i found out soi left him down in devon and moved back to mk to be wiv my family and friends, he tryed to talk me round but the trust was gone and i was gutted, so i moved on and jumped straight in to another relationship big mistake that turned out to be, i didnt giv my self time to heal.he moved make to mk too so i moved wiv new bloke to area i knew nothing about, but the day i arrived in mansfield i new this wasnt going to work, long story wont go into it. ive been luckly i havent seen my husband for over 4 half yrs so its been a bit easier for me to cope wiv, and only 6 months ago i was finally able to let go and say i no longer love him and threw all pics away from our wedding.
yes it takes time to heal but it gets better day by day and the 2 realationships ive had since have been no better, im enjoying single life at mo, not really looking to get involved again for a long while but im not going to say never as u dont no whats just around the corner, but it would av to be someone very specail to grab my heart, but until then its just me and my lovely kids that have kept me going all threw this, i thank them and i love them all very much. there is only one man in my life at the moment that i trust and thats my dad. since i was 15 i have always been wiv someone, well now i think its time for me and just enjoy life.
Mar 13, 2008 12:30 PM CST Divorce
sandsea
sandseasandseaManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK2 Posts
Hi R

Goodonya, keep positive ('applause');

Best wishes
Sharon
Mar 14, 2008 5:07 PM CST Divorce
cheshire
cheshirecheshireNorthampton, Northamptonshire, England UK1 Posts
I have been married since i was nineteen and have been seperated for 3 years and have just applied for a divorce. A year ago i met someone else on connecting singles and have had a long distance relationship with him..I found out on a few occasions that he lied to me about things in his life. It hurt alot because i told him that above all i needed honesty.
Now i feel like i have lost all faith in relationships. Sometimes its hard to stay strong when all you want is someone to hold you:-(..I thought i would feel happy getting a divorce but it just makes me feel more alone..
Mar 14, 2008 5:48 PM CST Divorce
uptou9
uptou9uptou9glasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK1 Threads 36 Posts
whats the address for the party
Mar 30, 2008 7:14 AM CST Divorce
ddboy
ddboyddboymadrid, Madrid Spain1 Posts
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Apr 10, 2008 8:36 AM CST Divorce
Alan_Ladd
Alan_LaddAlan_LaddLiverpool, Merseyside, England UK1 Threads 11 Posts
cheshire: I have been married since i was nineteen and have been seperated for 3 years and have just applied for a divorce. A year ago i met someone else on connecting singles and have had a long distance relationship with him..I found out on a few occasions that he lied to me about things in his life. It hurt alot because i told him that above all i needed honesty.
Now i feel like i have lost all faith in relationships. Sometimes its hard to stay strong when all you want is someone to hold you:-(..I thought i would feel happy getting a divorce but it just makes me feel more alone..


It is people like this that spoil it for everyone else, please don't lose faith in relationships, we are not all like that, I never once cheated on my wife, before her, and if I do find someone else, I never will cheat on her, I know what it dose to a person, my girlfriend cheated on me, my wife cheated on me, and I bet my new girlfriend who ever see is will, but I still won't.
May 21, 2008 11:59 AM CST Divorce
ocean_1
ocean_1ocean_1london, Greater London, England UK51 Threads 1 Polls 470 Posts
vodkababepls: im going threw a divorce myself should be here anytime, i think i will be gutted when it does come, but not to sure, we have been apart for nearly 5 yrs. he was the love of my life and every thing i wanted in a man, i was his princess and spoilt me rotten, but he couldnt keep his pants up and i found out soi left him down in devon and moved back to mk to be wiv my family and friends, he tryed to talk me round but the trust was gone and i was gutted, so i moved on and jumped straight in to another relationship big mistake that turned out to be, i didnt giv my self time to heal.he moved make to mk too so i moved wiv new bloke to area i knew nothing about, but the day i arrived in mansfield i new this wasnt going to work, long story wont go into it. ive been luckly i havent seen my husband for over 4 half yrs so its been a bit easier for me to cope wiv, and only 6 months ago i was finally able to let go and say i no longer love him and threw all pics away from our wedding.
yes it takes time to heal but it gets better day by day and the 2 realationships ive had since have been no better, im enjoying single life at mo, not really looking to get involved again for a long while but im not going to say never as u dont no whats just around the corner, but it would av to be someone very specail to grab my heart, but until then its just me and my lovely kids that have kept me going all threw this, i thank them and i love them all very much. there is only one man in my life at the moment that i trust and thats my dad. since i was 15 i have always been wiv someone, well now i think its time for me and just enjoy life.



It seem it did pain you a lot. Any way you must had a very nice memories and that's counts I guess.
Now leave every things behind .
Come girls get your self together and and move forwardprofessor
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