Reason, Season Lifetime ( Archived) (11)

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a
lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically,emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons, things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Awww...that is so awesome...very good insight you have about life at such a young age...thanks...for sharing...

That is very well put and true. Thanks so much for sharing!

Tracy :o)

Had that emailed to me a long time ago...

Everyone comes into our lives for a reason. Evryone.

If you are walking down a sidewalk among others...percentage of those that see you grin, or smile...?They carry with them...pass it on.

You will probably never se those folks again...but, you made a tiny mark, and they to you...

that water riplles effect again...circles.

lol

Yeah if you can smile at someone just anyone sometimes you see them smile right back a real big grin its so easy to do and it hopefully makes you both happy.

ahhh,

just do it anyway...don't wait to see if you get it back=o)

Morning you :-) I've received this in emails before, I really do believe this, do you?

The hard part for me is coming to acceptance of the letting go when our purpose is done, like now in my divorce. Once someone is in my heart, sometimes it is hard for me to accept that although that person will always be in my heart, they weren't meant to always be *in my life*, or in the same role in my life, and it hurts so badly at first!

But eventually I get to a peaceful place about it, and then there is just love left, and the lessons I've learned from them.

Peace

Don't think you are alone feeling like that I've found it hard to let go thinking I'll probably never see that person again or hear there voice or visit that place whatever it is. I guess I allways want them to fill that part of my life and I want to do the same with them. When I first left UK I was meant to have a big leaving do but just didn't turn up cause I couldn't face say goodbye to so many people. i think after time when everything has settled you can look back and think of all the good stuff.

When I split up with my last girlfriend I thought that was it, I couldn't eat and got a little ill but now I can look back & think if I'd never met her I would not have the confidance to do the things I do now. Yes we split up so in those terms the relationship would be seen as a failure, but I'll never forget nor ever want to forget the amazing time we shared and how much a better person I am a result of it. I've have learned alot for next time I have that kinda relationship with someone

morning! =o)

That's just it...not all ripples have light..ever notice whenyou look, it is thelight, and shadow that brings the ripple to see?

Anything from pain leaves it's mark. oh yes. And acutely. There is no mistaking pain for anything else. This is why it stands out... We are so full of emotion, thoughts...as human design, we need this to happen.

One person I remeber to this day is a science teacher from 7 or 8th grade that saw my need to soak things up like a sponge...taught me alegebra(sp). Showed me I was important and took and interest...It was a few month in my life, but that person left an important imprint during a time my homelife was horror...

All things touch us..and we are part of all things...


lol, here I go again...