I think I need a break from dateing. I have alot of confusion going on right now. when you have kept to yourself for so long and finally start to open up just to see you are going to get hurt it is a little overwhelming. However the people on this site have taught me so much about myself and letting go. I don't feel like I am the only one going through this stuff all by my self anymore.I have come to a place where I want the real thing. I want to be loved and cared for. I want to know I am the only one in their life. I am ready to give 120% to someone but I want that in return. Is anyone else out there feeling like this?
Baby, you're still young. You want , you wish, you desire. So do we all. I'm lonely too. I guess that the best answer to our question is, "What dreams may come". Paws
although I may still be young I just want to know I have that one no more looking.I am so tired of keeping my guard up but letting it downs just leaves me wide open for another heartache and I am not sure I can take that again. I am one of those women that were brought up to love one man give him all I have support him stand beside him help him in every way. I want to be loved like that too I know it is out there. I am just tired of waiting for it to get here.You just never know who wants to really stick around and who wants to run away.
you deserve the very best , I know what you mean about opening up. I hate to say it but I have been lied to so much I sometimes am amazed I still believe. but i do, I still believe.
BruisermondoChristchurch, Canterbury New Zealand29 posts
I have been where you are SO many times and for SO many years. For me, giving up on love eventually leaves me feeling even lonelier so I have kept going. Hopefully I am now on the right track. This may be a time for regrouping, Baby, so do what is right for you. When you least expect it, he will walk right up to your door.
You know, you have to see it as a learning process. Every time you meet someone, you learn a bit more about yourself but also about men (although I think you would need more than a life time to actually understand them, lol). So even if it hurts, next time you know what you want and what you don't want. And be careful, don't give immediately your 120% of love to someone, if the other is not giving his 100% back. That could be a bit overwhelming for a guy... it happened to me several times.
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