Thats a good one ive notice this they want what we want but are not going to tell you, they say 1 thing and mean another, i don't show how much i make and i get asked how much do you make, dose it realy madder, or is she just a gold digger or is that the most important thing or should i ask for a prenop befor anything else. Bottom line i could not care less what you make. WHAT IS IT WITH SOME!!!!!!!!
I think most of us are sincere in our profiles, what we are looking for... I won't say there aren't any gold diggers out there, and I won't say there aren't any that aren't sincere... but I think a good percentage of us are. As far as money.. I too have my own personal reasons why I don't put it down. Because I too think that's personal. Let's just say I'm financially secure. If someone is looking for money, they are not looking for a relationship.
I agree too.. someone should be able to take care of himself and willing to share support both emotionally and financially with the someone they want to share their life with... I understand there are times when some can be down on their luck... but it shouldn't be drawn out to the point where they make excuses NOT to do what would be right.
I actually think it's a matter of BOTH carrying part of the load. Who wants someone who can't keep a job, or is lazy or spends his money as fast as he gets it.
In the world of "men, women & children" home-life, the man is usually supposed to be the stable bread-winner. But in life's reality, today's society, it takes both checks many, many times to actually be RELAXED in "family". And even THEN, are we relaxed?
It's a tough financial world.
I really think people don't want a bum, when it's hard enough as it is. (to put it straight out)
catwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA6,683 posts
Finny: I think the women that have it together just want to be comfortable in life. Most of us agree that it would be nice to be able to afford some luxuries in life. Online dating has a way of bringing out the " gold diggers " and that is unfortunate for the sincere people that are really looking to be happy with getting to know each other and not care if you are a millionaire. Quite frankly, I would really like for my heart to be happy and want to explore that.
I don't mention how much I make in my profile and I really couldn't care less what "he" makes... as long as I don't have to support him plus support my 2 kids. I don't need a 3rd kid, lol btdt I'm not searching someone to support me financially either.
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but are not going to tell you, they say 1 thing and mean another, i don't show how much i make and i get asked how much do you make, dose it realy madder, or is she just a gold digger or is that the most important thing or should i ask for a prenop befor anything else. Bottom line i could
not care less what you make. WHAT IS IT WITH SOME!!!!!!!!