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May 8, 2008 11:38 PM CST To be or not to be ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
happy!!! joy cartwheel joy

Did ya ever think that maybe...just maybe, Happy is a conscience choice we make, or do not make, for ourselves? dunno I believe that it is. I was pondering this today while working...and then it popped back in my head while I was trying to go to sleep.

Life really is what we choose to make it, imho. Ok, ok so we may not have found the One, and may never find the One...and we may not have, or ever have, everything we want, but honestly, I think it's ok.

Cuz' if we make a list typing of all the Positives in our life, and there are many...one just has to open their eyes, and Heart, to see them ...I am sure we would find that the Positives greatly out weigh the Negatives.

The negatives... are they really so great and so life and/or time consuming that we should afford them the Power to steal from us the precious hours and minutes we are given? Will our life cease to be, and/or will we die if we do not have everything we think we deserve or strive for or want? I think not! grin Of course, I am certain there are those that would disagree with me...and that's fine. To each their own. wine

I choose Happy...regardless of what comes and/or goes. Love yourself enough to Live your life.

This is something that I am still learning to do...and sometimes I need to be reminded of my Choice for Happy. And when I am reminded...I look around myself and I see that what I have been so graciously given...is Enough. bouquet
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May 8, 2008 11:46 PM CST To be or not to be ...
kidatheart
kidatheartkidatheartFruitvale, British Columbia Canada30 Threads 16,544 Posts
I'm happy

hug kiss

wave
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May 9, 2008 12:05 AM CST To be or not to be ...
HzChld
HzChldHzChldSomewhere in the middle, Oklahoma USA55 Threads 2,779 Posts
kidatheart: I'm happy
hug kiss
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May 9, 2008 12:10 AM CST To be or not to be ...
alabamabebe
alabamabebealabamabebeBanks of the Warrior River, Alabama USA66 Threads 3 Polls 4,404 Posts
Gratitude is the first requirement for a happy heart. If you have that, the rest is just gravy! grin
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May 9, 2008 12:27 AM CST To be or not to be ...
oaks151
oaks151oaks151west memphis, Arkansas USA1 Threads 18 Posts
That's a great attitude and something that I've believed in for a long time. I try to stay happy and upbeat. wave
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May 9, 2008 12:28 AM CST To be or not to be ...
prncss4someone
prncss4someoneprncss4someoneHopeful, Michigan USA57 Threads 8 Polls 7,227 Posts
frustrated frustrated frustrated purple lectures at this hour should be outlawed...rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
pointing happy camper.............bouquet
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May 9, 2008 6:48 AM CST To be or not to be ...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
I'm quite happy and yes it is a choice....wink applause cheering applause hug teddybear
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May 9, 2008 6:53 AM CST To be or not to be ...
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
HzChld: happy!!!

Did ya ever think that maybe...just maybe, Happy is a conscience choice we make, or do not make, for ourselves? I believe that it is. I was pondering this today while working...and then it popped back in my head while I was trying to go to sleep.

Life really is what we choose to make it, imho. Ok, ok so we may not have found the One, and may never find the One...and we may not have, or ever have, everything we want, but honestly, I think it's ok.

Cuz' if we make a list of all the Positives in our life, and there are many...one just has to open their eyes, and Heart, to see them ...I am sure we would find that the Positives greatly out weigh the Negatives.

The negatives... are they really so great and so life and/or time consuming that we should afford them the Power to steal from us the precious hours and minutes we are given? Will our life cease to be, and/or will we die if we do not have everything we think we deserve or strive for or want? I think not! Of course, I am certain there are those that would disagree with me...and that's fine. To each their own.

I choose Happy...regardless of what comes and/or goes. Love yourself enough to Live your life.

This is something that I am still learning to do...and sometimes I need to be reminded of my Choice for Happy. And when I am reminded...I look around myself and I see that what I have been so graciously given...is Enough.



Having the choice to be happy or not is a beautiful thing. I enjoy being happy and with that comes a lot of gratitude. Each day no matter what happens I always have at least 3 things to be grateful for and that alway seems to put a smile on my face grin

Great post HzChld
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May 9, 2008 6:58 AM CST To be or not to be ...
bajanblue
bajanbluebajanblueSpeightstown, Saint Peter Barbados344 Threads 1 Polls 3,724 Posts
I agree, we choose what we feel. And I choose happy

Although I do know some (2 people) who seem totally happy when they are miserable...dunno confused
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May 9, 2008 7:00 AM CST To be or not to be ...
Hugz_n_Kissez
Hugz_n_KissezHugz_n_KissezSomeplace, Ontario Canada59 Threads 2 Polls 25,438 Posts
bajanblue: I agree, we choose what we feel. And I choose happy

Although I do know some (2 people) who seem totally happy when they are miserable...



Yes some people seem to choose that one too.....wink wave hug teddybear hug grin
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May 9, 2008 7:25 AM CST To be or not to be ...
Be Happy with Ren& Stimpyrolling on the floor laughing


This is a song about being happy! That's right! It's the Happy Happy Joy Joy song!

Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy
Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy
Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy
Happy Happy Joy Joy Joy!


Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy
Happy Happy Joy Joy Happy Happy Joy Joy



Sorry just couldn't resistdevil

Most folks are about as happy as they make their minds up to be.
Abraham Lincoln


The best thing about the future is that it comes one day at a time.
Abraham Lincoln



Be yourself.
Especially, do not feign affection.
Neither be cynical about love;
for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment
it is as perennial as the grass…

You are a child of the universe,
no less than the trees and the stars;
you have a right to be here.
And whether or not it is clear to you,
no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God,
whatever you conceive Him to be,
and whatever your labors and aspirations,
in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.


Excerpt from Desiderata by Max Ehrmann

conversing wave
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May 9, 2008 7:29 AM CST To be or not to be ...
Put Some Gratitude Into Your Attitude!

Some Friends gave me that Advice many years ago!handshake wave peace
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