kissmedeeply: Damn..Not everyone is going to like what one will tell them..We are not all going to agree...She is going to do what she wants to do..whether we give advice or not
kissmedeeply: Oh NO..i agree with you for once in my entire time here...I am sorry but i think you do like all this attention...JMO...not to hurt anyone but i agree with ras
valleygirl: guy's i need help really bad. I don't know what to do with men's anymore?
i will called them #1 and #2 ok just for their privacy.
I am with #1 for a year and a half his really find Everythings work well but i can't open my heart to him because i somekind love #3 even if i never meet him
then i met # 2 at work he really like me he buy me alot but now he is giving me money i wouldn't say the amount but it's really to much and no i don't have affair with him i am so lost i don't want to live with #1 or #2 but #3 lives really far and he is going to get married with another woman.
#1 he is kind but yielled alot after me he expect to much of me since i've work he ask me to do everything a nomal stayed at home would do i can't barely sleep ,i have to clean ,do the laundry,make the supper, after his work he came home and watch t,v after i came home i have to do everything even if i work night shift.
#2 well he is just a co-worker and a friend but it's not normal to have friends who threat me a little more nice then your #1 right
Well then came #3 which i think everytime #1 and i make love
please help
Think that you need to learn to stand on your own two feet ........... you don't love #1, #2 you're not interested in (so stop taking money/gifts from him because you're sending the wrong message) and #3 is not available and really should have never been brought into the situation because you were/are living with #1.
Rent or share a place with someone that is not going to take care of you - because you need to learn how to do this on your own without a man. Life is not some fairy tale (ie. knight in shining armor) and when you seek your security etc. from others then you're going to find yourself sometimes stuck in a situation such as you've created.
A relationship with a man shouldn't be based merely on finding security ............. its much more than that and you're worth more than that - but it sounds like you want the easy route ...... is the cost that you're paying worth it in the end?????
There will be a #4 out there somewhere ................ there always is ............. but its about making yourself #1 woman.
valleygirl: guy's i need help really bad. I don't know what to do with men's anymore?
i will called them #1 and #2 ok just for their privacy.
I am with #1 for a year and a half his really find Everythings work well but i can't open my heart to him because i somekind love #3 even if i never meet him
then i met # 2 at work he really like me he buy me alot but now he is giving me money i wouldn't say the amount but it's really to much and no i don't have affair with him i am so lost i don't want to live with #1 or #2 but #3 lives really far and he is going to get married with another woman.
#1 he is kind but yielled alot after me he expect to much of me since i've work he ask me to do everything a nomal stayed at home would do i can't barely sleep ,i have to clean ,do the laundry,make the supper, after his work he came home and watch t,v after i came home i have to do everything even if i work night shift.
#2 well he is just a co-worker and a friend but it's not normal to have friends who threat me a little more nice then your #1 right
Well then came #3 which i think everytime #1 and i make love
please help
It seems to me you feel like you have to be with someone to be happy, that is NOT GOOD!! Try working on your independence, make yourself happy, move out and try living alone, love YOURSELF. There is no rule that you have to have a man at all times. As for number 3, he's taken, leave him alone, if for some reason if it is meant to be then it will happen.
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