1,2,3 lover at the same time! (139)
rasgumby: You are starting to scare me
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I think you are all playing with each other and all being totally selfish and whilst you claim to have a problem I think that you are secretly enjoying all this male attention. You are all playing with fire. I think you should sort yourself out and disengage from all of them until you know what you want, then go get it. The longer this situation goes on the more likeLY everyone is going to get hurt. So do all of you a favour (you are the key)and get out and move on. JMHO.
Good luck.
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valleygirl: guy's i need help really bad. I don't know what to do with men's anymore?
i will called them #1 and #2 ok just for their privacy.
I am with #1 for a year and a half his really find Everythings work well
but i can't open my heart to him because i somekind love #3 even if i never meet him
then i met # 2 at work he really like me he buy me alot but now he is giving me money i wouldn't say the amount but it's really to much
and no i don't have affair with him i am so lost i don't want to live with #1 or #2 but #3 lives really far and he is going to get married with another woman.
#1 he is kind but yielled alot after me he expect to much of me since i've work he ask me to do everything a nomal stayed at home would do
i can't barely sleep ,i have to clean ,do the laundry,make the supper,
after his work he came home and watch t,v
after i came home i have to do everything even if i work night shift.
#2 well he is just a co-worker and a friend but it's not normal to have friends who threat me a little more nice then your #1 right
Well then came #3 which i think everytime #1 and i make love
please help
step back and look at this, not one of them is treating you fairly. Look for a #4 and relax do not sweat it with #1, 2 ,3i will called them #1 and #2 ok just for their privacy.
I am with #1 for a year and a half his really find Everythings work well
but i can't open my heart to him because i somekind love #3 even if i never meet him
then i met # 2 at work he really like me he buy me alot but now he is giving me money i wouldn't say the amount but it's really to much
and no i don't have affair with him i am so lost i don't want to live with #1 or #2 but #3 lives really far and he is going to get married with another woman.
#1 he is kind but yielled alot after me he expect to much of me since i've work he ask me to do everything a nomal stayed at home would do
i can't barely sleep ,i have to clean ,do the laundry,make the supper,
after his work he came home and watch t,v
after i came home i have to do everything even if i work night shift.
#2 well he is just a co-worker and a friend but it's not normal to have friends who threat me a little more nice then your #1 right
Well then came #3 which i think everytime #1 and i make love
please help
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come on he is playing you when he said he would hang himself...You cant stay with someone who threatens you like this...He wont hurt himself..that is old..heard it a million times...Stop making excuses and get out if that is what you want..I am not trying to be rude..but anyone who wants to leave can leave...No body has a hold on anyone like that
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valleygirl: first of all i want to make it clear i can't live with a man i had just like a bit because i was taking pity of him way back then it happen in a relation that one day you like him and the next you don't because i came to knew him. i've put myself in an unhappy situation i admit but we broke up so many times and even cheated behing his back i am the one who took my cloths and everything but gess what he was crying and forgive me i didn't look to stay with him the whole year and a half i've tried it didn't work out 5 time yes 5 time we broke up and came back together he don't get it and that's not my fault!
RAS
if your to good at this
then tell me?
what to do i don't even think you would stay in my shoes a min when a guy came and tell you he will hang himself if you go away stay with him and pretend to be happy
yes i am mad because i should had been more clearly on this but it's was not your buziness
i am not playing game here
i totally understand that he loved me but i can't loved him and be happy with someone who work with suicide tendecy threats ok
RAS
if your to good at this
then tell me?
what to do i don't even think you would stay in my shoes a min when a guy came and tell you he will hang himself if you go away stay with him and pretend to be happy
yes i am mad because i should had been more clearly on this but it's was not your buziness
i am not playing game here
i totally understand that he loved me but i can't loved him and be happy with someone who work with suicide tendecy threats ok
I seem to have missed something here, I gave the same advice and comments as many people here, but I am the one singled out for you to vent on?Does that mean that my opinion for some reason means more than the same from someone else?
Sorry- when you ask for advice in a international public forum, that is what you get. You got what you ask for
You are right, I wouldn't stay in that situation for any period of time, what.. is the guy like 12 yrs old? get real. If he was going to hang himself because you are gone-(which is just a childish attempt at control)( and he would not do, I think we have all heard this crap line a few times. but if I am all that someone has to live for then they have nothing useful to offer to a relationship!
There are 2 kind of friends.
one who will just agree with you, to make you feel better or -those that tell you the truth so you might open your eyes and do the right thing to improve your own life.
If one lays in a bed of snakes- should we really expect not to get bitten?
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valleygirl: guy's i need help really bad. I don't know what to do with men's anymore?
i will called them #1 and #2 ok just for their privacy.
I am with #1 for a year and a half his really find Everythings work well
but i can't open my heart to him because i somekind love #3 even if i never meet him
then i met # 2 at work he really like me he buy me alot but now he is giving me money i wouldn't say the amount but it's really to much
and no i don't have affair with him i am so lost i don't want to live with #1 or #2 but #3 lives really far and he is going to get married with another woman.
#1 he is kind but yielled alot after me he expect to much of me since i've work he ask me to do everything a nomal stayed at home would do
i can't barely sleep ,i have to clean ,do the laundry,make the supper,
after his work he came home and watch t,v
after i came home i have to do everything even if i work night shift.
#2 well he is just a co-worker and a friend but it's not normal to have friends who threat me a little more nice then your #1 right
Well then came #3 which i think everytime #1 and i make love
please help
i will called them #1 and #2 ok just for their privacy.
I am with #1 for a year and a half his really find Everythings work well
but i can't open my heart to him because i somekind love #3 even if i never meet him
then i met # 2 at work he really like me he buy me alot but now he is giving me money i wouldn't say the amount but it's really to much
and no i don't have affair with him i am so lost i don't want to live with #1 or #2 but #3 lives really far and he is going to get married with another woman.
#1 he is kind but yielled alot after me he expect to much of me since i've work he ask me to do everything a nomal stayed at home would do
i can't barely sleep ,i have to clean ,do the laundry,make the supper,
after his work he came home and watch t,v
after i came home i have to do everything even if i work night shift.
#2 well he is just a co-worker and a friend but it's not normal to have friends who threat me a little more nice then your #1 right
Well then came #3 which i think everytime #1 and i make love
please help
Maybe sort yourself out first and then try getting serious.
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I would never have 2, 3 or more lovers at the same time....
I only let them come in one at a time while the rest wait in line outside my front door
I only let them come in one at a time while the rest wait in line outside my front door
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Didn't I see this on Jerry Springer?
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rasgumby: I would never have 2, 3 or more lovers at the same time....
I only let them come in one at a time while the rest wait in line outside my front door
i wouldn't have the energy I only let them come in one at a time while the rest wait in line outside my front door
Seriously you have been given some good advice here, only YOU can decide whether to listen to it and help yourself 
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valleygirl: guy's i need help really bad. I don't know what to do with men's anymore?
i will called them #1 and #2 ok just for their privacy.
I am with #1 for a year and a half his really find Everythings work well
but i can't open my heart to him because i somekind love #3 even if i never meet him
then i met # 2 at work he really like me he buy me alot but now he is giving me money i wouldn't say the amount but it's really to much
and no i don't have affair with him i am so lost i don't want to live with #1 or #2 but #3 lives really far and he is going to get married with another woman.
#1 he is kind but yielled alot after me he expect to much of me since i've work he ask me to do everything a nomal stayed at home would do
i can't barely sleep ,i have to clean ,do the laundry,make the supper,
after his work he came home and watch t,v
after i came home i have to do everything even if i work night shift.
#2 well he is just a co-worker and a friend but it's not normal to have friends who threat me a little more nice then your #1 right
Well then came #3 which i think everytime #1 and i make love
please help
i will called them #1 and #2 ok just for their privacy.
I am with #1 for a year and a half his really find Everythings work well
but i can't open my heart to him because i somekind love #3 even if i never meet him
then i met # 2 at work he really like me he buy me alot but now he is giving me money i wouldn't say the amount but it's really to much
and no i don't have affair with him i am so lost i don't want to live with #1 or #2 but #3 lives really far and he is going to get married with another woman.
#1 he is kind but yielled alot after me he expect to much of me since i've work he ask me to do everything a nomal stayed at home would do
i can't barely sleep ,i have to clean ,do the laundry,make the supper,
after his work he came home and watch t,v
after i came home i have to do everything even if i work night shift.
#2 well he is just a co-worker and a friend but it's not normal to have friends who threat me a little more nice then your #1 right
Well then came #3 which i think everytime #1 and i make love
please help
Hehe...i really enjoy your Thread
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Arlene101: I have yet to see a positive post from you. Try it, you might like it.
Eh?! Most of my posts are positive...All I said was the price is right was rubbish. Is Bob Barker one of your idols.
Here...E=MC2...That's always generates a positive answer. Unless of course you start throwing anti-matter into the equation. Then no, that would not be positive.
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lola36: You know honey,you are remanding me one girl from this site,her name was Marry,she was just driving me mad with the same story like you are talking about.....
I assumed this was the same person.
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bodleing: I assumed this was the same person.
Was thinking about that...
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bodleing: I assumed this was the same person.
i don't think so my name is marie
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valleygirl: i don't think so my name is marie
Sorry marie, only read the last few posts,
people who have left or been kicked off
do come back with a different name and
profile.
Just that your posts are remarkably similar
in content.
Good luck to you anyway.
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thewall2: Didn't I see this on Jerry Springer?
More than likely....------ This thread is Archived ------
valleygirl: first of all i want to make it clear i can't live with a man i had just like a bit because i was taking pity of him way back then it happen in a relation that one day you like him and the next you don't because i came to knew him. i've put myself in an unhappy situation i admit but we broke up so many times and even cheated behing his back i am the one who took my cloths and everything but gess what he was crying and forgive me i didn't look to stay with him the whole year and a half i've tried it didn't work out 5 time yes 5 time we broke up and came back together he don't get it and that's not my fault!
RAS
if your to good at this
then tell me?
what to do i don't even think you would stay in my shoes a min when a guy came and tell you he will hang himself if you go away stay with him and pretend to be happy
yes i am mad because i should had been more clearly on this but it's was not your buziness
i am not playing game here
i totally understand that he loved me but i can't loved him and be happy with someone who work with suicide tendecy threats ok
RAS
if your to good at this
then tell me?
what to do i don't even think you would stay in my shoes a min when a guy came and tell you he will hang himself if you go away stay with him and pretend to be happy
yes i am mad because i should had been more clearly on this but it's was not your buziness
i am not playing game here
i totally understand that he loved me but i can't loved him and be happy with someone who work with suicide tendecy threats ok
If anyone tells you they will kill themselves if you leave them .. then thats THEIR choice in my opinion.
It's a big threat used by some people.. and usually that's all it is a THREAT. Although I do know of a situation here in my town where someone did carry out that threat. But still mostly that's all it is.. blackmail.
never never never allow someone to emotionally black mail you.
If you are not happy.. end it.. if he kills himself.. so be it.
You cant stay just because of that threat.. you can't be held responsible..
you have your whole life to live.
End it.. move on.
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he don't get it and that's not my fault!
RAS
if your to good at this
then tell me?
what to do i don't even think you would stay in my shoes a min when a guy came and tell you he will hang himself if you go away stay with him and pretend to be happy
yes i am mad because i should had been more clearly on this but it's was not your buziness
i am not playing game here
i totally understand that he loved me but i can't loved him and be happy with someone who work with suicide tendecy threats ok