princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,
I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.
I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"
He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".
I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"
I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."
he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up..... Was I being to harsh or prudish?????
by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
I think that your first clue was all the text messages during the game 2 things are true, he seemed a bit obsessive about it all, and you wouldn't leave the game and go see him
ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!! In no way were you prude or harsh!! Any guy who is insisting for you to come to his house is out to get something!! You were smart in not going because it could have even gone sour! Good for you for standing your gound!!!
princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,
I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.
I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"
He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".
I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"
I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."
he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up..... Was I being to harsh or prudish?????
by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
I don't see where you did anything wrong, you acted just like any one of us would. The problem was his not yours. If this is the way he is going to be this soon, then he did you a favor, because he sounds like he pretty selfish to me. And you are much to good to date something like that. Not to worry, there are men out there who respect women and there wishes, and you will meet one. there are really more of them then we think.
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I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.
I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"
He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".
I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"
I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."
he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up.....
Was I being to harsh or prudish?????
by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
I think that your first clue was all the text messages during the game
2 things are true, he seemed a bit obsessive about it all, and you wouldn't leave the game and go see him
He might like to be slammed into the boards...