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Jun 3, 2008 1:49 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,

I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.

I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"

He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".

I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."


He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"

I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."

he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up.....



Was I being to harsh or prudish?????

by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
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Jun 3, 2008 1:52 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,

I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.

I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"

He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".

I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"

I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."

he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up.....
Was I being to harsh or prudish?????

by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.



Just a senile old farts opinion but I think you were being very wise..wink
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Jun 3, 2008 1:54 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Princess....I am stunned you would even ask the question...!!wow


princess49503:

Was I being to harsh or prudish?????

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Jun 3, 2008 1:55 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
sxc666
sxc666sxc666unknown, Queensland Australia51 Threads 16,853 Posts
own morals that is roll eyes
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Jun 3, 2008 1:56 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Lagoona22: Princess....I am stunned you would even ask the question...!!



I agree. You were right to follow your gut.
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Jun 3, 2008 1:56 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
Lagoona22: Princess....I am stunned you would even ask the question...!!




your right, I should have gone to his house and beat the crap outta him with my hockey stick.....
as a matter of fact...... i still mightboxing
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Jun 3, 2008 1:59 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
Lagoona22
Lagoona22Lagoona22Bugibba, Majjistral Malta161 Threads 11 Polls 10,711 Posts
Phone him up, and ask him if he wants to play a game.....when he asks what game, tell him he's the puck.....


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


princess49503: your right, I should have gone to his house and beat the crap outta him with my hockey stick.....
as a matter of fact...... i still might
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Jun 3, 2008 2:01 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
diogenes
diogenesdiogenesLongview, Texas USA69 Threads 7 Polls 4,761 Posts
dunno

I feel sorry for you poor ladies.....


There's just not enough of me for everybody.


Sorry!
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Jun 3, 2008 2:03 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
riyablossom
riyablossomriyablossomsomewhere, Pennsylvania USA184 Threads 18 Polls 11,244 Posts
hmmmm ..... why do some men behave so impressively .. mumbling
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Jun 3, 2008 2:04 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
kare65
kare65kare65brisbane, Queensland Australia3 Threads 225 Posts
Was I being to harsh or prudish?????

Nooooooooooooo way and him hanging up shows ya, wat a w.....
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Jun 3, 2008 2:05 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
i normally ask references...

documents, work contract...

if it' to sleep at his place, at have to inquire the neighbor before, i'd have to search the house all over...

i mean princess, you lost the guy? make yourself a "better person" so you can sniff mischievious attitude or nasty behavior! That was simply a crap behavior from his side...







doh
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Jun 3, 2008 2:06 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
cristina: i normally ask references...

documents, work contract...

if it' to sleep at his place, at have to inquire the neighbor before, i'd have to search the house all over...

i mean princess, you lost the guy? make yourself a "better person" so you can sniff mischievious attitude or nasty behavior! That was simply a crap behavior from his side...


not sniff but smell itlaugh
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Jun 3, 2008 2:06 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
princess49503
princess49503princess49503grand rapids, Michigan USA18 Threads 1 Polls 1,485 Posts
diogenes: I feel sorry for you poor ladies.....There's just not enough of me for everybody.Sorry!




Well, you should be!

try harder next timetongue
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Jun 3, 2008 2:21 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,

I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.

I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"

He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".

I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"

I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."

he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up.....
Was I being to harsh or prudish?????

by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.


No you weren't.. and he has behaved like a knob... mumbling

Infact for him to behave like that when it is all still so new is pretty telling about his personality I would say.

I think you just got saved from a not particularly nice person. (I was being polite) haha

wave hug
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Jun 3, 2008 2:37 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
Portiea
PortieaPortieaKonstanz, Baden-Wuerttemberg Germany93 Threads 11 Polls 4,000 Posts
Claayer: No you weren't.. and he has behaved like a knob...

Infact for him to behave like that when it is all still so new is pretty telling about his personality I would say.

I think you just got saved from a not particularly nice person. (I was being polite) haha
thumbs up total agreement
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Jun 3, 2008 2:39 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
cristina
cristinacristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands286 Threads 10 Polls 17,243 Posts
Portiea: total agreement


i so much love this girllove

morning my princessteddybear
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Jun 3, 2008 4:39 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
Aries01
Aries01Aries01Kent, England UK47 Threads 4 Polls 2,732 Posts
princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,

I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.

I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"

He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".

I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"

I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."

he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up.....
Was I being to harsh or prudish?????

by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.


Prudish?? No way.. what a sneaky F**ker!!!!! to stand you up and then try to plamause you over to his home.. u don't know him.. .he could be a murderer for all you know!!! men like that have not even evolved to the amoeba stage intellectually or emotionally... frustrated... thank god you didn't go hug hug
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Jun 3, 2008 4:40 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
lunalenape
lunalenapelunalenapeWiesbaden, Hessen Germany1 Threads 14 Posts
Man this is totally invaluable information for those of us re-entering the dating scene. I mean it's AMAZING what you can apparently get away with these days. :-)
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Jun 3, 2008 5:30 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
Claayer
ClaayerClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK107 Threads 9 Polls 15,888 Posts
Aries01: He works with us both.. (we are all barristers).. if he even ATTEMPTS to say hello to me I am just gonna either scowl at him or look straight through him... what bugs me about these fellas.. is its the nice girls... the ones who absolutely don't deserve it that they screw over (though nobody deserves it).... ...

How are you anyway honey... haven't been around much over the weekend...


Oh I just messaged you.. laugh

hug
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Jun 3, 2008 5:46 AM CST So I went to meet this guy......
Scottishlass
ScottishlassScottishlassKnoxville, Tennessee USA491 Threads 23 Polls 3,324 Posts
princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,

I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.

I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"

He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".

I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"

I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."

he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up.....
Was I being to harsh or prudish?????

by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
You did the right thing!! thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
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