princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,
I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.
I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"
He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".
I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"
I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."
he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up..... Was I being to harsh or prudish?????
by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
Just a senile old farts opinion but I think you were being very wise..
Phone him up, and ask him if he wants to play a game.....when he asks what game, tell him he's the puck.....
princess49503: your right, I should have gone to his house and beat the crap outta him with my hockey stick..... as a matter of fact...... i still might
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
i normally ask references...
documents, work contract...
if it' to sleep at his place, at have to inquire the neighbor before, i'd have to search the house all over...
i mean princess, you lost the guy? make yourself a "better person" so you can sniff mischievious attitude or nasty behavior! That was simply a crap behavior from his side...
cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
cristina: i normally ask references...
documents, work contract...
if it' to sleep at his place, at have to inquire the neighbor before, i'd have to search the house all over...
i mean princess, you lost the guy? make yourself a "better person" so you can sniff mischievious attitude or nasty behavior! That was simply a crap behavior from his side...
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,
I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.
I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"
He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".
I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"
I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."
he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up..... Was I being to harsh or prudish?????
by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
No you weren't.. and he has behaved like a knob...
Infact for him to behave like that when it is all still so new is pretty telling about his personality I would say.
I think you just got saved from a not particularly nice person. (I was being polite) haha
princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,
I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.
I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"
He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".
I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"
I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."
he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up..... Was I being to harsh or prudish?????
by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
Prudish?? No way.. what a sneaky F**ker!!!!! to stand you up and then try to plamause you over to his home.. u don't know him.. .he could be a murderer for all you know!!! men like that have not even evolved to the amoeba stage intellectually or emotionally... ... thank god you didn't go
Man this is totally invaluable information for those of us re-entering the dating scene. I mean it's AMAZING what you can apparently get away with these days. :-)
ClaayerWild Wild South West, Cornwall, England UK15,888 posts
Aries01: He works with us both.. (we are all barristers).. if he even ATTEMPTS to say hello to me I am just gonna either scowl at him or look straight through him... what bugs me about these fellas.. is its the nice girls... the ones who absolutely don't deserve it that they screw over (though nobody deserves it).... ...
How are you anyway honey... haven't been around much over the weekend...
princess49503: So I went to meet this guy (2nd time meeting) after the Redwings game at an all night diner,
I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.
I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"
He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".
I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"
I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."
he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up..... Was I being to harsh or prudish?????
by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.
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I get there (on time!) and he's not there , I call him on his cell and he says 'no come over to my house, I really need a back rub.'.
I say "I can't, i have a long day 2morrow"
He says, "It's ok you can spend the night".
I say, " no thanks, we've only met once so far and I don't want to sleep at someone elses house 2nite ."
He goes on the defense and says, " I am a gentlemen and will won't do anything to you, whats the problem???"
I say," It's just my preference, I don't think it's appropriate."
he says," Well, good luck to ya." and hangs up.....
Was I being to harsh or prudish?????
by the way his nick is chewtoy41 on another site.....just in case other ladies here are conversing with him.