cristinaLisbon, North Holland Netherlands17,243 posts
The best thing is to have people who care for, positive people around you. If your own family doesn't understand what that is, go get it outside, your life is not destroyed because of that, find alternatives, have quality friends... To assess who are your quality friends, imagine yourself very sick, needing assistence for a while...what friends would really support you, like asking one dat free at work just to care for you...or try to organize that with other friends? Is this demanding too much? If yes, try to imagine yourself in an approximate position, see who will run, who will stay.
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To assess who are your quality friends, imagine yourself very sick, needing assistence for a while...what friends would really support you, like asking one dat free at work just to care for you...or try to organize that with other friends? Is this demanding too much? If yes, try to imagine yourself in an approximate position, see who will run, who will stay.