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wedwardlinz, Upper Austria Austria680 Threads 7,252 Postsis it ok in this modern era for a lady to invite a man on a date, or should the man do the asking?
I want the man to be the man in the relationship. It's not just about tradition or typical gender roles. It's about wanting a man who is confident enough to take the risk and make the first move.....
wedward: is it ok in this modern era for a lady to invite a man on a date, or should the man do the asking?
For me it is not ok at all.Man should be a man and invite the lady.
gangel: For me it is not ok at all.Man should be a man and invite the lady.
Why ?
Elley: Why ?
Cause that way you never ever have to suffer rejection. Well some of us men have very fragile egos and in a modern world I cannot see why you should retain the exclusive power to attract and reject at will.
For many decades you have successfully lobbied for equal rights and although there are still a great many inequalities re womens rights it is grossly unfair not to extend the hand of equality in our direction a little. Or is it really the case, as I have stated above, that you only want equal rights to the good things in life. The sad fact of the matter is that lots of progressive women want to hold on to their female power base whilst making inroads into the male one.
Elley: Why ?
Because that is my way of thinking.Bad or not, right or not.I've never invited a man on a date, would never do it.I think so.
gangel: Because that is my way of thinking.Bad or not, right or not.I've never invited a man on a date, would never do it.I think so.
ok, that,s fine, you don,t invite me and I won,t invite you,done.
Elley: ok, that,s fine, you don,t invite me and I won,t invite you,done.
Very funny!
I never wanted any equality,dear!
nattysa: I want the man to be the man in the relationship. It's not just about tradition or typical gender roles. It's about wanting a man who is confident enough to take the risk and make the first move.....
"Want the man to be a man", "it's not just about tradition or typical gender roles"... contradiction in terms?
nattysa: I want the man to be the man in the relationship. It's not just about tradition or typical gender roles. It's about wanting a man who is confident enough to take the risk and make the first move.....
yes... I agree with you
but at the same time I don't see why I shouldn't ask a man out..
perhaps he's not brave enough to ask me out? what would be the use of such a man I wonder? I don't think it's a matter of bravery for them... but I don't know what the matter is either
I would ask a man out if I wanted to, that's a definite. and then I would see
There are some social codes, you like it or not, and if in a certain situation a man asks a woman out, or her phone number, or whether there’ll be next time they can chat, it’s a sign that he’s interested in her.
If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?
And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"
If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?
And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"
Tulefel: There are some social codes, you like it or not, and if in a certain situation a man asks a woman out, or her phone number, or whether there’ll be next time they can chat, it’s a sign that he’s interested in her.
If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?
And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"
If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?
And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"
No shy guy !!!! You cannot be serious !!!! I am a shy guy, which is why I am still alone.
Tulefel: There are some social codes, you like it or not, and if in a certain situation a man asks a woman out, or her phone number, or whether there’ll be next time they can chat, it’s a sign that he’s interested in her.
If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?
And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"
If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?
And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"
Elley: No shy guy !!!! You cannot be serious !!!! I am a shy guy, which is why I am still alone.
Hoiya to all the hommies out there
Dragon girl, that's a very pretty pic
i luuuuurv it 
As for the question at hand, it is much too complicated as many things could enter into the equation (such as: what kind of a person are you and what kind of a person are you looking for... and many more),
but in general,
my man Elley here's got me covered
wedward: is it ok in this modern era for a lady to invite a man on a date, or should the man do the asking?
It is, and there is no OR involved at all.
Modern was the key word here.
Tulefel: There are some social codes, you like it or not, and if in a certain situation a man asks a woman out, or her phone number, or whether there’ll be next time they can chat, it’s a sign that he’s interested in her.
If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?
And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"
If he doesn’t do that, it’s already a rejection, and why then would she ask him out? Just to get a "no" confirm the obvious?
And sorry, but there is no such a thing as a "shy guy"
Manolito: Hoiya to all the hommies out there
Dragon girl, that's a very pretty pic i luuuuurv it
As for the question at hand, it is much too complicated as many things could enter into the equation (such as: what kind of a person are you and what kind of a person are you looking for... and many more),
but in general,
my man Elley here's got me covered
Dragon girl, that's a very pretty pic i luuuuurv it
As for the question at hand, it is much too complicated as many things could enter into the equation (such as: what kind of a person are you and what kind of a person are you looking for... and many more),
but in general,
my man Elley here's got me covered
thanks Manu
Conrad73: etc...
etc... this is serious Man!
dragonfly88: this is serious Man!
That was exactly my Sentiment. 
Silly me
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